my parents are fighting help me and leave me your e mail my parents scream at me if i get in their way do you know any way to prevent my mom and dad to stop fighting????????????
2006-06-10 10:13:56 · 23 answers · asked by darsun82 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Write them a letter. Say this:
Dear Mom and Dad,
I sometimes feel that I'm the most grownup person in this household. The two of you fight like children. I feel like I live on the Jerry Springer Show. We need to start acting like a family again, and if I'm part of the problem, I'd like to know what I can change to make things better. But I really, really don't want to have it screamed at me. When I get back home, I'd like it a lot if the three of us could calmly sit down at the table and talk this out like grownups. Please. I really need us to be a family again.
Seal your letter in an envelope, write "Mom and Dad, please read this together" on the front, and when you are going out for whatever normal reason (don't make up a special excuse to leave, they'll think you ran away), give it to one of them when you leave. Like, if they give you a ride somewhere, give it to them as you're getting out of the car.
Make whatever changes you need to make to the letter, to make it yours, or leave it like that if it works for you.
Good Luck! *fingers crossed*
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2006-06-10 12:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by 42ITUS™ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry to hear that, it must be extreamly hard on you. Do you have any relatives that you can stay with for a while such as grandparents or aunts. I would suggest that you pick a relative to move in with and tell your parents that they need help and you can't take the stress anymore. Let them know that individualy you love them but they aren't coming together as a family and that is what you really need out of them. Maybe while your away they can get some counseling and try to concentrate on their marriage. This is not a fair situation for you to deal with and I'm very sorry that they are putting you through this. My e-mail is abearsfan77@yahoo.com if you need to talk to a parent that is willing to listen to you.
2006-06-10 17:31:11 · answer #2 · answered by abearsfan77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am soooo sorry to hear this, but you shouldn't be asking for people's email address on here to help you. This is against yahoo answers guidelines and you could get into trouble. If you NEED help because you are being hurt in the middle of what is going on, I suggest that you call the police and DON'T get in the middle. Your parents fights have NOTHING to do with you.
Good luck....
2006-06-10 17:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by Just me.... 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Counseling may help. You may what to talk with a pastor or church member. There are a lot of people that can help your parents. But your parents have to accept the fact that they need help. It's no fun hearing someone yell all the time. I hope things get better for you!
2006-06-10 17:20:11 · answer #4 · answered by CRock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two people getting mad cause they are not getting what they think they deserve/ you could shock and awe them back into reality/ be creative and some how get the point a cross as to what really matters the most/ find a close friend to hang out with when it get's really bad though/ that way your not around to push on
2006-06-10 17:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by alauzenev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they are not fighting ask them if you can talk to them together and explain that their fighting upsets you and that you would like for them to get some counseling to help with their problems and that you are asking them to do this because you love them both and don't want to lose either one of them.
2006-06-10 17:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by railcar_exp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't stop the fighting i moved out at 15 to get away from it you need to contact cps and tell them what is going on and that you no longer feel safe
2006-06-17 13:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by little bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk to them telm them that fighting dosent help and tell them how you feel tell them that its not fair on you because you are still young and it's hard for you to cope.. see i know these things my mum and dad always hit and fought each other i just went to my room and cried and it stayed inside me forever now i wish i had said something ,, i havnt lived a great life but im still standin tall good luck xxx
2006-06-10 17:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go in ur room if they are physically fighting then call the cops here is my e-mail , anytime=Gravylavy1@yahoo.com
2006-06-10 17:59:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive gone through a lot of that with my parents, but they never listen to me, considering im a little girl. dont force them to get along, that most of the time doesnt work. i think they just need to solve their problems by themselves.
but before they...if they divorce, they should ask you first because parents always go along with it without even hearing what their kids think. it isnt fair, huh?
2006-06-10 17:20:48 · answer #10 · answered by il_spongebob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋