IM SOOO UGLY I CANT STAND ME INFRONT OF THE MIRROR I WISH I WAS PRETTIER ......................MY NOSE HAS A BUMP (A NASAL BUMP) AND IT LOOKS DISCUSTING ...................WHEN PEOPLE SEE ME THEY SEE ME LIKE THEY ARE DISCUSTED I FEEL LIKE IM NOTHIN (IM A WEIRD BUG) MY FRIENDS SAY MY NOSE IS NASTY AND I FEEL LIKE IM NOBODY WHAT CAN I DO ?
2006-06-10 09:54:58 · 22 answers · asked by ? 4 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Baby remember beauty is skin deep.Example my friend had a man that all the ladies wanted nice car nice house no kids good job etc..........he was really nice looking.He beat her hind pots black and blue.Never let her go out with us made her quit her job,so he would know where she was at all times.Now she has a new man short and fat he don't dress like we do,but he's good to her.And that's what's important.Look's aren't everything by far baby believe me.And those are not true friends if they tell you things like that.Take care of yourself.
2006-06-10 10:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I bet you really aren't ugly at all. Any slight imperfections we have are much more noticable to us than to anyone else. And most people won't look at anyone like they are disgusted, you most likely just think they are. And as for your so called friends that tell you your nose is nasty, they are NOT your friends. It sounds like they get off by belittling you and making you feel bad about yourself. A real friend would never say something like this. I lot of people have something about their face they want to change, noses are very common thing that is re-structured with plastic surgery. How old are you? Are you old enough to go to a plastic surgeon? If not, what do your parents say? Have you ever talked to them about it? Maybe they can get you a consultation with a plastic surgeon, just make sure he/she is a board certified plastic surgeon. A plastic surgeon will tell you if a change needs to be made. Just know that plastic surgery won't completely change your life, you have to work on what's inside too. Good Luck.
2006-06-10 10:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, beauty is only skin deep, and only in the eye of the beholder.
It's normal for teenagers to feel unattractive. Usually, its just low self esteem. Unless you have some obvious gross deformities (which can also be treated), there is no reason to put yourself down.
Here's a simple prescription:
Keep your face clean and scrubbed, and your hair neat.
Eat healthy and exercise - good health brightens up a tired face.
Wear makeup if it makes you feel good.
Always think positive thoughts. Read some good self- esteem books to get your confidence back. You are not unattractive, its only what you feel about yourself. Change your thoughts, and you will be much happier.
2006-06-10 10:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by multidisciplinarian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is plastic surgery a possibility? Go for it!!
Get in shape if you're not already.
If this won't do it, you need to start working on changing your life' goals. Nobody is worthless. With some exceptions, nature almost always will endow people with some strenght. Find out what it is an exploit it.
Telling you not to worry about your appearence will not be enough to change your mindset. Don't fight the feeling of worthlesness. Go to the source: YOUR PLANS AND YOUR EXPECTATIONS ABOUT YOURSELF... Those feelings will go away by themselves if you get your mind to focus on more meaningful goals...
Also, try to be nicer, easy going, outgoing and carry yourself with confidence. People like this, somehow tend to look "prettier".
2006-06-10 10:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Body Dysmorphic Disorder.
2006-06-10 09:57:47 · answer #5 · answered by Psychology 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my dearest Negra I am sure a lot of people in this world has at least one thing they are not very happy about.I am sure you are worth more than how you look like,because I believe that we (human) are important and it does not have to do with how good looking we are.I am sure when you get to heaven and the new earth you will look your very very best because anyone who makes it up there well look their very very best and you get to stay that way forever!!! and this is written in the Bible and God does not lie.I am concern about you and I hope that you go and talk to someone who is a professional if you are really unhappy and i hope that you do not harm you self in anyway.take care.love.
as for beauty ,the best kind of beauty is from within,clothe yourself with love,care,( and other gifts and characteristic from the Bible)..
2006-06-11 13:56:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this way about yourself, and you are let say a teenager, I would recommend you discuss this matter with your parents, and see if they can arrange for you to have this nasal bump removed. If you keep going this way, you are going to be severely psychologically damaged. I'm sure no one wants this for you. Good Luck.
2006-06-10 10:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your friends suck i know how it is i have a big kielode on my ear that is the size of a tumer people stop and stare at me and aks me is it an disease i feel so bad i can not get my hair done the way i like it becuase i have to constantly keep hiding it kep your head up those jackasses will get what it coming to them!
2006-06-10 10:46:40 · answer #8 · answered by soawake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel that way about yourself. Its does not do your self esteem any good. Also, ditch those so called friends of yours!!! What type of friend insults one that already feel bad about themselves!!! Go talk to a trusted adult or doctor/therapist about how you feel.
2006-06-10 10:04:11 · answer #9 · answered by Autumn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can get a job and get on a payment plan for plastic surgery, it would do wonders for your outlook. I had work done when I was younger and I became a new person with more confidence.
2006-06-10 10:14:17 · answer #10 · answered by peppermint_paddy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋