I think my girl is cheating, how should I go about it?

Question

I went jail for four mo. When I left I had a stash of 7 condoms. She was aware that I had them. I came home to only 2. She also claimed she was a 31 year old virgin. But she owned a box of condoms before I ever met her. I don't know what to believe. She claimed the condoms were for another guy prior to me. She did not have sex with him. The condoms were bought for him though. Supposedly her friend & roomate at the time used the missing condom.

Answer 1

You say to your girlfriend: "Have you seen those seven defective condoms around? Right before I got busted, I was going to bring them back and show the drugstore all those holes I found."

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with a virgin owning condoms but a 31 yr old virgin now a days is just crazy . and 5 condoms missing u look at it 2 ways ok she had sex 5 times but she was safe she is not bringing me aids home.
5 condoms gone how many times did she have sex without the condoms she can bring me a std home and she cheated on me not caring about my feelings while i was in jail. It is obvious that she cheated on you but you have to sit down and think. what would i do if she was gone for 4 months? and why were u in jail? She probably felt alone and hurt while u were gone. You must stop and think how she felt the whole time that u were away some women do not have enough will power to control them selves. i would just leave it be and if she cheats on you while u are not in jail and home with her daily then i would brake up with her. Times when you are put away you are making her feel like if you loved her enough u would not do stuff to be taken away... Some Women are bad for thinking stuff like that. my ex went to jail for 3 1/2 yrs.
i went 2 years without doing a thing but it came to the point when i started feeling like if he loved me he would not do this to me... and so on but i had willpower most women do not have that. Now that u are home just keep a track on her and see if she is still ******* around. You got a choice can u live with the fact that she got lonley. if not then let her go so she can tell another man that she is a virgin..

Answer 3

31 year old virgin is kinda hard to believe though. There's a way to find out .......... that's have sex with her to see if she's cheating. I know it's a bad idea. But that's how you find the truth.

Answer 4

It sounds very fishy to me.. I mean i am a woman also. why would she be buying a box of Condoms for .?? why would i want to give that to her freinds and roommates to uses sex .. its none of my business to be worrying abot their sex life .. i think it is possibke that she may be cheating if shes not being direct to her .. so have u had sex with her before .. u can recall by her hole if its tighther or loosing . thats the answer for you, sir

Answer 5

Did you ask her directly if there was any funny business when you were away? What was her condom excuse? There is no definitive way to see if she is telling the truth, but currenty you can hire a PI to see what she is up to when she is away from you.

Answer 6

I think she is cheating on you too. Who hads heard of 31 year old virign who owned a box of comdoms. She is playing as a fool. good luck

Answer 7

UH DUH...SHES 31. SHE HAD A BOX OF CONDOMS BEFORE YOU MET HER AND YOU WERE MISSING SOME WHEN YOU GOT BACK... move on, shes playing you!!

Answer 8

ha break it off or catch her in the act follow her for a couple of hours.......tell her your going to visit sumone up north or down south for the day or two and follow her around have oit on tape if she has cheated then break up with her good luck(stalking is not good idea but if she is cheating atleast you would know tthe truth)

Answer 9

Virgin? is she eating the condoms lol?

Answer 10

shes obvioulsy cheating on you. how would she use a condom? she just wont give the condoms away.