me n by bf just had a terrible break up
a few hours ago. im so deppressed well anyways he broke up with me cuz he said he doesnt feel that spark anymore that we once had. well i really love him and he said we can be friends and it would be really hard to just be his friend i still want to be his gf. u think i should be his friend or get him out of my life. and if so why. or is there anything i can do to get him back. HELP plz
2006-06-10 09:22:54 · 5 answers · asked by 805 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
weve been dating for 5 yrs 1/2
2006-06-10 09:29:53 · update #1
Welcome to the broken hearted club!!! Frankly speaking, your bf has mustered an ounce of courage to break up with you. Maybe he just crossed the other side of the fence and found someone new. Hey! Cheer up! He doesn't deserve your tears. It's his loss not yours. Just find a break up buddy...someone who would help u overcome this break up (don't ever find someone else unless u have finally gotten over him it's unfair for the rebound guy). This buddy will lend you a symphatetic ear whenever u feel like crying and depressed. Get a life...Just pack away every little things that will remind you of him. Don't ever try to call him at the middle of the night it will only make the situation worst. Get a new hairstyle, revamp your looks and your wardrobe (just in case u come acrossed ur ex he will be surprised why u seem to be blooming...chances are he will be challenged to chase you again). Go out with your friends and family. Socialize and be . Don't cry over spilled milk. Love has its time,season and reasons! You cant ask it to stay,you can only embrace it as it comes and be glad for a moment in your life it was yours.
2006-06-10 09:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you guys are young. This is what we call the end of the "honeymoon". The first few months, it's new and exciting. Eventually, when you get to know each other, it goes from lust to love. Love isn't always as exciting as lust, but in the long run, is much more gratifying. This happened to me more than once, but I moved on, found a great man, and am very happy. Men that say things like that are still immature and inexpirienced in matters of the heart. As painful as it is, you have to let it go and move on. You'll find someone who appreciates you for you and will stick around for the long haul. Good luck!
2006-06-10 16:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on , the we can still be friends thing doesn't work, he is addicted to you so that's his way of saying that he still wants you feeding his addiction but he has another g/f and when he starts getting fed by her, you are history, he doesn't want to go cold turkey. if he took time away from you to get another g/f, do you still want anything to do with him? people that do that aren't being fair. they look while still in a relationship and when they find someone, they leave you cold turkey with a heartache. it's touch to look for someone else when your heart is aching. just be careful who you trust your feelings to next time.
2006-06-10 16:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
real we cant make him 2 lov move on next time u will pull up your sox and stop lazzyness
2006-06-10 16:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by jonas m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love him then you will take what you can get. if you love him so much why would you want him pushed out of your life
2006-06-10 16:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by kizdrop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋