We went to the movies and then we went out to eat. I am only 16. We sat there, looking around and we barely spoke a word. When I said things, she would juss go "Yea, Uh-Huh." Please help! I dont know waht to talk about!
2006-06-10 09:08:10 · 8 answers · asked by Dray 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't talk about your favorites...try to find out what she is intresst in and talk more about those kinda things...try to make jokes stuff...MAKE SURE SHE LIKES YOU
2006-06-10 09:12:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a hard situation you want to talk yet you don't want to talk too much, been there done that. Try talking to her about school, ask her about herself girls always have something to say about themselves if those things don't work then its her not you. She might not be ready. Or it just might be a case of nerves too don't forget she is also worried about what to say to you. Try again. Don't go to the movies too much pressure try something more fun, bowling, an amusement park, anything that wont force the issue of confinement. Just relax it will all flow.
2006-06-10 16:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by rottenkid4560 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about trivial things, find a common interest between the two of you and beat it to death, if your really struggling. Take notes from her though like if she wears a shirt with a band on it talk to her about the band. "So you uh like BANDNAMEHERE do you?". Girls aren't all socially different from guys, they all have there quirks but you can pretty much talk to them like you do your male friends (minus the cursing and insults).
2006-06-10 16:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you must now her better than me so talk about things that she likes, maybe movies shows music school each other friend families and things like that. don't feel down first dates are sometimes akward, try it again but if it does not work then end it because it's not going anywere
2006-06-10 16:14:46 · answer #4 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a conversation about anything! Like what do you want to do when you go to college? Or.... what is your favorite color? Or...some general questions like that.
2006-06-10 16:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Carly-Rae<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well think of things that you might have in common so you will have something to talk about. she might be shy....time will come you will be more comfortable with each other.
2006-06-10 16:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by georghennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talking about your past. it's always good to look at your past childhood. or try commenting on anything you see when you're with her. be careful though, don't be so stereotypical.
2006-06-10 16:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by 27stars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant have a relaxed convo, then you might not be ready for each other
2006-06-10 16:11:16 · answer #8 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋