We just don't seem to talk like we used to before we went out. He ignores me and I get sometimes feel like telling him he ruined my life but how do you think I should say this gently?
2006-06-10 09:05:26 · 23 answers · asked by CityGirl21 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its not easy because if he does have any feelings for you he's going to be hurt. if your sure breaking up is what you want to do then explain to him that you've both changed over time and it's time you moved on. may i suggest that if your not completly sure that you try taking a break from each other for a week or two just so you can both see what life would be like without the other person. good luck
2006-06-10 10:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by podge_celt 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Here are some ways to do that: I have another boyfriend. I have too many things to do and can't keep up with this relationship, I'm sorry but I won't be able to see you anymore. This isn't working out for me, I think of you more as a friend than boyfriend. And if all else fails, you have no choice than be mean. Go all up in his face and scream LEAVE ME ALONE. He won't dare come near you ever again and you'll feel much better.
2016-03-27 00:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in the end your going to dump him so their is no unhurtfull way to say it but just tell him that what you had was nice but you don't feel the same way you did and that you only whant him as a friend. good luck !!
2006-06-10 09:09:54 · answer #3 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you start telling him how he ruined your life and make sure you don't leave out any of the details? Then, when he's almost unconscious, tell him it's over. Believe me, he'll thank you.
2006-06-10 09:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you got new vibrator and you won't need him anymore. He will understand and not feel hurt.
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2006-06-10 09:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't have to give him detailed reasons, telling him he has ruined your life is a bit harsh! just tell him its not working out you have tried but u preferred it when u were friends that way u might be able to stay friends.
2006-06-11 00:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OR you can make him break up with you! just start doing all the wrong things, u know like how to lose a guy in 10 days? haha that would be great. ive always wanted to try stuff like that, but i got a great bf.....(dammit lol)
2006-06-10 09:08:00 · answer #7 · answered by sball124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a yellow rose with a note attached. Hopefully he'll understand. Good Luck.
2006-06-10 09:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old you are. you sound like a teenager... if you are just tell him that you have other things to do, he will get over it.
you could make all sorts of excuses but you won't feel good afterwards. honesty is the best policy.
2006-06-10 09:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by saltyseadog444 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him things are not going in the direction that you thought that they would and should, and need to explore the world for yourself.
2006-06-10 09:09:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋