I'm really scared about going to the dentist but I'm sure I need some work done on my teeth. I haven't seen a dentist since I was 15 and I'm now 24. I know that's really bad.
Anyway, I wondered whether I could get anything from my GP that would make me more relaxed when I go? I know they'll sometimes give you something when you're going for fillings and stuff, but would they give me something if I was just going for a first appointment and was really scared?
Also, can you make an appointment and just go and speak to a dentist without them looking in your mouth the first time? Or would they consider that a waste of their time? I just don't think I could handle it all at once, I'm REALLY anxious about going, and I wouldn't go except for the fact that I know I have some cavities and I don't want them to get really bad and give me toothache.
2006-06-10 08:45:38 · 14 answers · asked by Alicia W 1 in Health ➔ Dental
I know at my denist he allows you to do a constation with him first before he ever opens your mouth. He also has a tv and dvd player for you to watch while he does his stuff, so to relax you.
Of course all denists are different, you will need to call them up and give them a shot. Talk with friends and family members to see how their dentist are, word of mouth is everything
2006-06-10 08:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by scare_all 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the crowd. All of us are terrified of dentists. We're also not too fond of having toothaches that last all night. And none of us are particularly happy with what they charge for their services. They have it "tied up," but one day this will all be different, and people will not freak out when they need a tooth patched up and all. I am on a fixed income. I HAD to use a clinic set-up to get work done. But I was in for a pleasant surprise. When I went there I happened to get a dentist who treated me like a member of my own family. I mean, I felt like I could completely relax with this guy, and he also happened to be a dentist! Talk about your classic turn-around situation! So, I decided then and there to follow him into his private practice. I just liked the way he treated me in the chair. He is very expensive. I pay him all at once by getting a loan from one of my friends, and then pay my friend back each week until everything's cool again. I would be the last person to make light of your pre-dentist chair terrors. I have been there, and I even got the T-shirt. And it's no darned fun. What other people tell you about THEIR dentists can help you a whole lot, especially if you really know your friends. I would have you ask your friends who they go to, and listen to the way they describe him/her. When you get the right "feel" for a particular dentist, try him out. Even go a step further: ask your friend to go with you. The more right up front and open you are about being scared out of your wits you are, the quicker we can summon the troops to make your first visit a breeze. I am sending up a prayer to God to ask Him to channel you through to the best dentist you have ever had in your whole life and to please do it in the next four weeks. There. Problem solved. Take a deep breath and enjoy the rest of your week. Sent with love from G. in South Poretland, Maine, U.S.A.
2006-06-11 06:44:39 · answer #2 · answered by GORDY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest that when you call to make an appointment you tell the receptionist you would like it if the dentist could plan to spend some extra time with you because you are so scared. Your first visit will mainly consist of dental x-rays, an exam and getting your teeth cleaned. The dentist may have the dental hygienist spend some time with you to try to make you less scared. If you are still scared when the time comes to get your fillings you need to discuss this with the dentist. He/she will help you discuss any options you might have about a mild sedative. God bless!
2006-06-10 08:57:52 · answer #3 · answered by celticwoman777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the dentist you are worried, if he/she is worth anything they will be understanding. If they are not, find another one.
I insisted on being put to sleep for a tooth extraction because I'm scared of the dentist so I was reffered to the hospital. I had a bit of a wait on the NHS but it was much less scarier than sitting in a dentist chair. It depends if you are more scared of the dentist or the hospital. That is of course if you need anything doing, you might be worrying for nothing.
2006-06-10 08:56:15 · answer #4 · answered by Gemma C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can! My dentist gives me Temazepam cos Im a wuss and it relaxes you to the point where you are falling asleep. You take 1 the night before treatment and then 2 tablets 1 hour before your appointment so someone will have to drive you there and back and have some strong painkillers ready at home for when the anaesthetic wears off.
2006-06-10 08:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by greekbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let your dentist know that you're very nervous. Most of them will give you the gas so that you relax. If they refuse to do that, then you don't have a good dentist that cares about your well-being. Get a new dentist in this case.
2006-06-16 02:56:41 · answer #6 · answered by MyBestFriendIsMuslim.....So? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get a recommendation from a friend, then call that dentist's office and explain your fears to the receptionist. I'm sure the dentist will meet with you before he/she does any work, but you will probably be charged for that visit. Most dentists can use a gas (nitrous oxide) that will relax you before he numbs your tooth and before he begins working on your teeth. Make sure he/she is qualified to use this type of gas. My son is extremely frightened by dentists and our dentist uses gas on him and he is fine! Good Luck!
2006-06-10 08:50:43 · answer #7 · answered by inkles1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dentist can see you for a consultation only. He/She still would have to LOOK in your mouth. Then when it is time for work to be done he/she can prescribe medication to relax you or give you nitrous oxide (laughing gas). It probably is not as bad as you think it is. Find an understanding dentist and you will be fine.
2006-06-10 08:51:52 · answer #8 · answered by waney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dont be scared.. they only look on the first visit. When they see that something(if anything) needs doing they will get you to make another appointment. Tell them your scared. he will talk to you through what ever he does... Dentists dont hurt today. theres plenty they can do fot you to settle you.
2006-06-10 08:51:59 · answer #9 · answered by aunty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could make a consultation appt.with your dentist and IF he thought it was a waste of time- he wouldn't be my first choice! you want someone who has the time to hear you. one possibility besides a consultation would be making the appt with the hygienist and seeing him when he comes in to check your teeth
and yes, there are premeds he can prescribe to you or use the nitrous oxide
2006-06-15 12:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by ladyofthehollow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋