that they were in a car crash what would you do?
He wanted a kiss and I didn't want one (because I'm engaged and not interested in him that way) but he stole one anyways. So even though I've known him forever, I told him never contact me again. Well the next day he crashes his car and texted me about it. (Sounds like something a psycho might do on purpose.) I checked that he was ok with a text and then I sent a second asking why in the heck he texted me when I asked him not too.
What would you have done? Do you think this was overboard rude and I should appologize?
2006-06-10 08:08:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Do not apologize. If he text messaged you after the accident, chances are the damage wasn't that bad. Sounds like he's trying to manipulate you and make you feel guilty for something he's doing. He has already gotten you to text him after you resolved not to. This guy is just messin' with you and it will get worse. You take care and watch out.
2006-06-10 08:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
How do you steal a kiss?
If you dont want to talk to him anymore ignore him completely. By texting him back its just going to egg him on. By him kissing you even though he knows you are engaged just shows that he does not respect you.
2006-06-10 15:13:00 · answer #2 · answered by BWLJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should explain things to him. Remind him that you're engaged and that it is not possible for you to be in love with him, and that you really don't want to text message. Be persistent, honest and firm, but polite as well.
2006-06-10 15:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by the Boss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the same thing you did, and yes it does sound like something a psycho would do. You handled it okay. Let it be.
2006-06-10 15:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by PariahMaterial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would answer them, I would just refrain from discussing previous disagreement. I would just move on to the next point. They are still entitle to personal opinions just as I am. Why would I want to stop taking to them. Just don't discuss argumentative issues with them.
2006-06-10 18:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by Petergirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just block him. You have every reason to. Tell him that he is not to contact you ever again, and if he does, get a restraining order. Then if he contacts you or shows up, he'll be arrested.
2006-06-10 15:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by Old Fat Bald Guy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have answered anything at all in the first place.... just ignore the guy. If he does crash, his problem, not yours... don't give a damn about him, sorry, he crossed the line.
2006-06-10 15:12:10 · answer #7 · answered by ma_isa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing, you checked that he was okay and you reminded him that you didn't want him to contact you that way he cant confuse your concern for something else.
2006-06-10 15:12:43 · answer #8 · answered by lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't contact him anymore at this point. Decide to not second guess yourself.
2006-06-10 15:12:58 · answer #9 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your #. My ex was like that...I ended up switching cell companies and moving.
2006-06-10 15:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by sshazzam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋