Its about mind set.You have to accept all the good that life has to offer.You have to believe and know that only good is going to come your way.Sure there is going to be a few bumps in the road but go with it.Its just a bump.A positive out look will always land you in a better place than a dark negative view of things.Put yourself around positive people and avoid negativity in any form.Life is an adventure and the way you look at it will shape it for the good or the bad it's your choice.
2006-06-10 08:07:14
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answered by El Mexicano 2
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I know that not everyone is a Christian, but from my own personal experience, becoming one has made an unbelievable difference in my life. Having a family that you love, a career you are happy in, and always trying to do the things you feel to be right will also make you happy. If you are willing to stand up for what you believe in, regardless of what "the rest of the world" thinks, and if you put your family first, rather than your "friends" and your social life, then you can be happy. True friends are a blessing and are great to have, but the majority of the time we find that the people we call friends are nothing more than social parasites.
2006-06-10 15:08:14
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answered by poetess 4
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Jesus Christ.
2006-06-10 14:57:53
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answered by lookingforanswers 2
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As a Christian, I find my peace in God and following Him.
For those who do not have God to guide them, my best suggestion is to be content with who you are and where you are in life. You know you will grow from stage to stage and in season to season. But being envious of others or fearful of your future only serves to make you unhappy. When the storms hit in your life, and they will, confront them assertively (not aggressively) and leave it behind. Lugging a lifetime of baggage around with you will exhaust you and doesn't make you or anyone else happy.
If you see someone you admire or something you want, find out how they achieved their goals (either emotionally or materially) and see if you can gain wisdom from them while you walk your life's journey. Seek out the advice of older people who are obviously enjoying their lives.
Be a servant, unselfish and kind to everyone you meet, not just the likeable ones. All those things will come back to you in the measure with which you give them.
Be well, be blessed and be at peace, even in the storm.
2006-06-10 15:07:40
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answered by Sandy S 3
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Happiness is a habit of positiveness for travelling along the journey of life and not a destination to be arrived at at the end of the journey.
Yes, there are very happy lives and you also can have one if you start practising the same habit
Confusion_Master
2006-06-10 15:13:12
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answered by KNOW ALL 2
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Accepting yourself for who you are and being comfortable with those around you. Accept the things you have in life as that is all you will have and look at anything you gain after as the greatest gift you have ever received. Enjoy every day you are alive as the days are not of an infinite number and not enjoying them would be a waste of your gift of life here.
2006-06-19 01:10:07
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answered by Jay 5
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The secret is the ability to truly love. Love everything and everyone. With love all things fall into place, you will no longer show human ugliness, you will treat everyone and everything with respect, you will see what is truly important, which all equal a very happy life.
2006-06-10 15:03:34
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answered by coolnightairiscurious 1
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Believe in God and Jesus and try to be healthy and follow Christ path towards life
2006-06-10 15:01:01
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answered by CH 2
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Optimism, spirituality and a sense of humor. All of these things have seen me through some very dark times in my life. Without these 3 positive influences you only exist, but cannot truly live. May all of your days be bright, and may you find goodness in all things.
2006-06-10 15:07:53
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answered by Battlerattle06 6
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The secret to a very happy life is: Within yourself, your God will help you, find happiness. He created you, in His image, and He promises, life, and life Abundantly! Which means, lots of Joy! God will help you, to find anything you are looking for. He's right where you are, right now. You can tell him anything!! And He will listen. And end your conversation, with Our Lord & Saviour....In Jesus Name. Begin your conversation with "Our Heavenly Father" or just "God".. I was at my lowest in life many years ago..I just wanted to die, life didn't matter, anymore to me. But, a Christian friend of mine introduced me to a Friend of his. His name was J.C. And this friend turned my life around 180 degrees. I had peace, love, joy unspeakable..And the Blessings just poured out into my life!! In Abundance, financially, relationships, you name it!! God, took good care of me & mine! Still does! He's right there, Knocking on your hearts, door. Wont you "Open up your heart & let Him in? He can give you All of your hearts Desires!! GOD-SPEED, to you, my friend..........
2006-06-10 15:18:33
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answered by Hmg♥Brd 6
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