What is it that guys really want in a girl??? Do you want a slut? Do you want an innocent girl? Do you want them to be themselves, even it turns you off, or do you want them to be what you want them to be. WHAT is it that really matters to guys when it comes to getting into a relationship with a girl?
2006-06-10 07:42:09 · 23 answers · asked by Carrie P 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Useful answers please.
2006-06-10 07:46:34 · update #1
always be yourself, and never let anyone change you, life's too short not to be happy by being yourself
2006-06-10 07:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
In a relationship? I think it depends on the guy. I'm not sure how to put this without sound chauvinistic but I think men want a girl to be a girl, a pretty man is not something that serves a purpose. A guy also generally wants a girl to take care of him, someone to make him feel good about himself. A guy wants someone to have fun with. Whether or not the girl is being "herself" isn't so important as long as she's genuine. My girlfriend and I do sometimes avoid talking about things...but we're both pretty predictable, and we just know talking about this or that is just gonna end up hurting both of us. We're not lying to each other, nor are w brutally honest. The sex is just something is one of those perks they feel they've earned out of a relationship. Whether or not they exploit it, depends on the guy.
2006-06-10 08:08:10 · answer #2 · answered by paratechfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playfulness and a willingness to enjoy one another's sexuality. If he is into spanking and dressing up and you aren't, he will spend all his time wishing that you were different. I happen to find promiscuous women exciting; women with an exhibitionist and promiscuous streak turn me on while strictly monogamous women don't.
Innocence is sweet sometimes but so is experience. An experienced girl can play innocent but an inexperienced girl can't play experienced. You have to work hard for that!
2006-06-10 07:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish you lived in central Ohio cause you sound absolutley perfect and normal. Games really suck and are unneccesary. I personally wear my heart on my sleeve and love to do things for my mate without expecting anything in return.Carrie there are good guys out their it just takes time i guess. YOU sound like a real catch for a non@sshole. Hang in ther your a real pretty girl so dont settle for anyone less than prince charming.
2006-06-10 07:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by SCHMUCKY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All men are different..
But as for myself I want a woman that has an opinion of her own.... I want a woman that I can have a conversation with... I always fall in love with the ones that we can have an intellegent conversation about something and have two different points of view but it not be a fight or argument.
I want a woman with class and personality. But a freaky side when its called for
2006-06-10 08:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by Big John 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys need lots of smiles. Smiles that are accompanied with genuine love for the guy.
They need lots of fun apart from love making, and to be offered good love making whenever they need it. You also have to initiate love making, not the guy doing that all the time. They also need you to be less argumentative.
Finally, and most importantly; never be a cheat.
2006-06-10 11:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well like most relationships they are based on false images and so when the real person shows up the relationship fails. So that said to be yourself is the best way to go unless you like short term relationships.
2006-06-10 07:48:29 · answer #7 · answered by steve k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like that she is own self very smart and knows what she wants in life good looking long dark her and I would give everythink do that kind of girl and try make her happy as much as possible.
2006-06-10 17:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obediance
2006-06-10 07:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, above all things! What matters is that both of you are truly happy with the "real" you, and the "real" him. We don't want you to be, what you think we want you to be. We want you to be who you are, and what you are. We might like naughty girls as "playtoys", but not to marry. We want respected ladies to marry, and be the Mother of our children. That's what really matters!
2006-06-10 07:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets. relationships depend on a lot of things. fun, smart, outgoing, smiles a lot, isn't uptight, hot/sexy, classy etc.
2006-06-10 07:52:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋