WHAT SHOULD I DO can some one help me?

Question

Me and my girl got in to a big fight over some thing stupt she is 6 mounts pregnt and she told me that she did not love me any more and she was going to sleep with with some one eles what should i do i lover to death and she really hert me should i stay around and see if she comes back or should i just move on with my lie

Answer 1

I am sorry that you are having heart ache over the situation. You do have options. You can gravel and apologize and hope it works out and also hope it does not continue to happen in the future. Remember that a baby does not save a relationship. If you chose to stay apart then move on with your life, love will happen again, but keep in mind that no matter what happens with you and your girl, that baby is yours as well. If you chose to part make sure you get a parenting plan in place with your court system to ensure your participation in your childs life. Make the best choice for you right now. How many times has she made the same threats to you and how many more times will you hear them when with her? Think of yourself and the future of your child. Your child does not deserve to be brought up in a unstable relationship. Talk to your folks and see what they have to say as well.

Answer 2

If you love her that much how are you going to let something as small as an argument make you leave her. Remember, she is pregnant and her hormones may be going like a rollercoaster because of it. Be patient with her and she needs to know that sleeping with someone else will only make the situation worse, especially if that person has some sort of disease which can hurt the baby as well as her.

Answer 3

I personally would be concerned about your child, be a part of that baby's life, just because you and mommy cant get along doesnt mean that child should grow up witnessing it, or having just one parent. Maybe she is confused or something, try to talk to her, and remember that even though you are not married, YOU HAVE THE RIGHT TO SEE YOUR CHILD AND BE A PART OF IT'S LIFE, NO MATTER WHAT SHE SAYS

Answer 4

Two people who don't get along are not doing anything beneficial for a child caught between them. If the relationship can't work (for whatever reason) please don't try to *make* it work for the sake of the child. Nonetheless, the relationship between you and your child is important and that does not change regardless if you and the baby's mother are officially together.

Answer 5

I would try to save this relationship on behalf of the lil one in her tummy! write her a note, a poem..buy some flowers..REALLY TALK it through...but win her back+be a part of this child's life!!! It takes two! Don't be a dead beat Dad+ make her very aware that you Will be a part of this baby's life!! Good luck!

Answer 6

It sounds like you could use some professional help.

If she is pregnant with your child, it would be wise for you to think about the type of contact you are interested in having with the child in the future.

Answer 7

Your child should be a important part of your life. be the best dad you can regardless. you alone cant make it work it take too don't try to change her if she want to she will do it her self. hope it wont be too late good luck

Answer 8

I would just let her do just that, but beware of child support when the baby gets here, but if you still love her, then hang in there.

Answer 9

well try to get the baby when it is born if its urs than move on if she said she was gonna sleep with sum1 elts she sound like a whore no offence

Answer 10

its the pregnancy let her calm down she will come back its the hormone man I was a real ***** when I was pregnant