so ..what can i do to make my marriage work?
im talkative he's QUIET.
we hvae been married 7 years but few phases SUCK...
so need tipss how to make asilent guy happy
2006-06-10 07:29:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk as long as he listens...and everythign is negotiable...go out on dates...if you have kids and don't have a baby sitter bedtime is important so that you have time to be alone. I think that an acctive sex life works...believe me he will listen to you then...good luck.
2006-06-10 08:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by CRIS14 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should read “The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work : A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert by John M. Gottman” and “The Relationship Cure : A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships” both are available from Amazon.com
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2006-06-10 07:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by ***** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication, Communication, Communication
2006-06-10 09:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Mac 4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A marriage is one together, not one partner "trying" to make the other happy. The relationship needs to be examined for reasons of unhappiness. He is silent, but does he "listen" to you, answer questions or ask about geniune things concerning you and vice versa. The key is good communication, yes there will be times of differences between each other, but you have to be open and talk about things, everything.
2006-06-10 07:37:17 · answer #4 · answered by DollyLama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, that's crazy... and it just might work for some, lol. I prefer a more loving approach to marriage though... where I don't run the risk of being shot in the head with a revolver!!! Allah knows best!
2016-03-15 02:35:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be like a friend again. i think both of u haven't really revealed the real "you" to each other. when ur married you should be combined or become 1. communication is the number one key in understanding each other. be patient,give and take. one of you must give way. when the other is angry, be calm be rational. try to talk things over. always make the other one feel true and passionate love. or try to seek a marriage conselor. make everyday like you were newly weds or girlfriends and boyfriends. make the most out of it as if it's your last...
good luck!
2006-06-10 07:42:18 · answer #6 · answered by XiaHoliC NiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try too hard or else u never know when u might get on his nerves & all hell will break loose.i have one thing to ask u however, can marriage & happiness go hand in hand; coz to me they sound like contradictory words.
2006-06-10 07:41:34 · answer #7 · answered by surendra s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 7 years you should know him inside out! If you don't. then its time to start.
2006-06-10 07:35:14 · answer #8 · answered by Big D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats a good question...if you are talkative..keep talking....and sometimes dont speak at all..he will get worried...give him his space...let him do what he likes...understand him.....if you follow this, definately he will start thinking about you too....so get set go.....
2006-06-10 07:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never ever think of separation
2006-06-10 07:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by amrita basu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋