how do u think of living?do u fight back? or not!!
2006-06-10 05:50:43 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are capable of defending yourself, do so.
Otherwise, escape & call the cops when you can and press charges so he does time for hitting you.
Leave that bum & go on living. You deserve better.
2006-06-10 05:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess what we lived in a society where men hit women i never heard that a woman hitting her man!! Lets change things a bit now! Go take some kick boxing classes and than if he hits you, you hit back!! beat the crap out of him and than kick him out of the house for good!!! Call the cops up report what has happened and get a restriction order on him that way your on the safe side!!
I have taken kick boxing and my boyfriend to thinks 10 times before he raises his hand on me!! He never has!!
2006-06-10 06:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Pari 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my ex boyfriends broke my nose and my cheekbone and it happened so fast I was too stunned to do anything.
My ex husband, on the other hand, has some very nice, deep, purple scarring from where my nails "accidentally brushed" his neck during an altercation.
Honestly though, the best thing is to do is to get out of there and don't go back. Keep a bag of clothes within easy reach or at a friend's house, and if he is looking like he might "blow up" then make sure you aren't in a position where you can be cornered.
2006-06-10 06:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to decide to leave him, and stick with it too!! it's hard for a little while, cause u think of the good times u've had and then u start to cry and shiiuut. he'll probably try any way he can to get back w/u, u just have to b strong and not even talk to him or see him. if u have to take a TPO out on him to keep him away Protection Order. do what u have to...honey it only gets worse the longer u stay w/him too, and u know it!
don't fight back, it makes it worse usually. get away as fast as u can and stay away.
know that u deserve better. know that ur worth more that all that!!!
2006-06-11 10:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by thundakat312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you might still love him, he surely doesn't love you if he is hitting you. You need to leave before it is too late. You deserve better than that. You probably are staying with him because he in the beginning he prob wasn't like that, and you're hoping for that person to come back. But it isn't going to happen, it'll prob just get worse. SO LEAVE and find someone who treats you like a princess
2006-06-10 05:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by chilenacc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MORE of the same (hitting) in the future. Use your feet and run to the nearest door, don't look back, accept phone calls or apologies, because the statistics say he will continue to physical abuse you. And one of those assaults, yes assaults, could result in your injury or death.
Talk to a relative or close friend for help, but you need to get out of this seriously dangerous relationship NOW.
2006-06-10 05:56:38 · answer #6 · answered by banananose_89117 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let people know. Like, law enforcement. The phone is not far. You can let your boss know so he or she will know what to do should that boyfriend show up at your work. Basically, you sever all ties and move on. There are too many nice guys out there that will treat you right or at least not hit you.
2006-06-10 05:56:33 · answer #7 · answered by Rainmaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You call the cops on him! DUMP him!
Violance never has an excuse!!!
You need to stay away from him and never look back! This can and will turn into a cycle...(him hitting you, you leaving him, him coming back saying he loves you, begging you to take him back, you forgiving him and so on..) This "game" can turn fatal. You can die! If not, you can suffer from a lot physically and emotionally. Do you want that? I don't think so.
2006-06-15 04:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops. They have a special unit for that.
I would leave him AND call the cops at once. I wouldn't stand for that. But I wouldn't fight back violently, either. You can get seriously hurt hitting a violent boyfriend.
2006-06-10 05:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by bradley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ Forlam Hope report him to the police GO TO COURT and all Forlam said . gurl im a big guy wish you were my sis I would show him how it feels to get hit by someone that bench presses 320 lbs an curls 175 easy I yhink he would never hit a chick again after I fugg his azz up ya think!!!!
never hit women just leave when they push the final button guys never!!!!!!ever!!
2006-06-10 05:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋