2006-06-10 05:25:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's when I can't stop thinking about her.
2006-06-10 05:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Berties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases we think: this is true love, when in fact it’s not. But than if this ain’t love than what it is? There are plenty of things that we confuse with love.
It could be just the basic instinct. The feelings can be passionate and crazy, but in fact both people may want only sex. And after it all the misunderstanding starts, and once infatuated lovers will find out that they have nothing in common and sometimes they don’t even know what to talk with each other.
Another variant is when people lack support, care and attention to their person or they just scared to stay single. Being with someone can be a habit when one simply got used to the other. It can either be a sick addiction or some self-interest. People call all these types of relationship love just by mistake or trying to conceal the true nature of it.
But than what does real love look and feel like? Maybe it’s when two people seem to know each other for ages and even in their previous lives. They can go on talking and talking and conversation never lacks topics and never gets dull. Or people don’t have to say anything because they understand each other without words. And those moments, minutes and even hours of silence are never uncomfortable. True love is when partners complete one another, when they’re together it’s peaceful, the whole other world with it’s sufferings and problems doesn’t exist and nothing even matters.
True love means understanding. One trusts another more than him/herself and feels ready to satisfy every little need of a partner. Two people don’t stop for a second looking into each other eyes.
It’s said that two persons truly in love aren’t looking at each other but in the one direction. And this is rather reasonable because they don’t say nothing “this is yours and this is mine” and share everything: friends, enemies, interests, problems and etc. One has his/her own identity but sees him/herself only as a part of the other. Still real love is not a relationship of property. If you really love someone you may say “I belong you” but always be ready to let go if it makes the person you love happy.
Jealousy stands out of the true love. How can one be jealous if there’s so much love and faithfulness? Real love doesn’t long for power, it doesn’t want to hurt, doesn’t want to punish for mistakes, it’s self-sacrificing and ready to forgive other and other again. But it’s wrong to think that true love is always a suffering, it only means that you take a person as he or she is and don’t expect the one you love to be perfect.
True love isn’t supposed to blow your mind, yet it doesn’t tend to get and to possess – it’s a and very special state of a soul.
But the question that true love is still has no definite answer. Do we truly love only once in our life? At what age are we supposed to meet our love? Does it last for a lifetime or just for a while? Probably everyone has his own answers to this questions. The truth is that no one should spend life chasing ideals or building relationships by some model of a true love. One will probably fail and miss the real thing beyond all this.
We should remember that very many things we need to supply our healthy and comfortable living but only the true feeling of love makes life really longer and happier. And this is scientifically proved.
2006-06-10 12:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Izabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are in love, everything feels right.
He thinks of you the way you think of him
You enjoy each other's company
You both can't wait to be together
You do things for each other, sometimes suprising each other
Say nice things to each other, are supportive of each other
Being in love is great, Sometimes you know your in love and things may feel perfect, but sometimes it is not when you don't know how the other person feels about you, he may not be in love with you, love is tricky. When a man feels the same way about you the way you feel about him....that is when everything feels right.
2006-06-10 12:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by cherry-o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the welfare and happiness of the other person is more important to you then anything you might get out of the deal.
You want only the best for them, and are willing to give (up) all toward that end.
2006-06-10 12:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by who WAS #1? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, that is not a dumb Q because i wonder about wheather if i am in love all the time. i guess you feel yourself following him wherever he goes. and you feel yourself turn hot when you talk to him.
2006-06-10 12:29:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know if you are in love or not. If it is the right guy everything will just seem so right.
2006-06-10 12:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by hayley♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that you are questioning love , makes me think ur on it wid sum 1 , if u alwayz think about them , you would do anything for them , you know them inside out , u wana spend evry minut wirth um , these all point into the diresction od LOoOoOoVe , buh relli i knew a guy for onli 2 months n i loved him , its all dwn to you , theres NO RULES!! if its wut ur feeling , them daamn u got it bad , your sprung! :P take care n god bles xx
2006-06-10 12:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you choose this person over anything else and you would be happy if it was just you and them in this world nobody else but you two. if you cant visualize that then it's not love
2006-06-10 12:30:22 · answer #8 · answered by macksimusaurelius 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asked and answered a million times
2006-06-10 12:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well one if all you think about is him and you enjoy just being with him without wanting to sleep with him. yes!
2006-06-10 12:29:49 · answer #10 · answered by A1 steak sauce 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋