he has a wife,i just had to find out on my own. the problem is he sleeps over at my place but he is moving in with herantime soon but they had a wedding 3 months ago.he says he lovws me more than her,but she is pregnant.i stsy with him when am at school because he stays in the town were my school is.am now going back home and dont know if it will be the same when i come back after 1 month and 2 weeks.i love him and enjoy his company,i also love our relationship.what should i do?
2006-06-10 05:18:42 · 38 answers · asked by tasha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Drop him!!!!! The ones that cheated with you will eventually cheat ON you.
2006-06-10 06:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by frenchy62 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this is such an easy question to answer. He has a wife. He's married with a child on the way. For your own sake, please run the other way from a man like that. If he cheats on her, he'll eventually cheat on you. Don't make the mistake in thinking that things are "different" with you and him. They never are. When you're older, you'll understand this. I know you like your relationship with him, and you'll probably miss him, but the right thing to do is to break things off with him for good. He's not a good man. He can't be trusted. And he'll just end up hurting you. Find yourself a good guy who's available. You deserve that much.
2006-06-10 05:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this issue here boils only to one thing and that is respect. give yourself some respect. he's married and what does this relationship makes u? ....a homewrecker that's what! remember u urself are a woman. put urself in her place. how would u feel if ur husband is having mistress? let him go. u might say "easy for u to say coz ur not involved" but honey holding on to something farce and a lie is stupidity. u r not only walking all over the baby on the way and his wife but URSELF. if he loves u, then he should make a choice. leave him and let him go. u deserve so much more than just be a mistress to someone who is irresponsible and selfish who is only after for his own happiness.
2006-06-10 05:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by crazygrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what his reason for marrying the fact of the matter is that he is married. Besides this is not the stone age, you don't have to marry a girl just because you got her pregnant. The baby can still have your last name and all that stuff. Leave him alone there are other men in the world. There are plenty of single guys out there. If he really cared about you, he would not want to put you this.
2006-06-10 05:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a difficult situation and in this cases when you love him is hard to leave him just in a second but you have to think very carefully about this because is about your entire life ...love means to be with the other and to be available for him or her and he is not available for you...he has to choose between you and her...if he loves you he'll want to stay with you ...but if he doesn't know what to say it means that he is not a man he is loOKing only for adventure and ...please think about it...there is a woman who thinks that the man who lives under the same roof with her is her husband ... please try to imagine this: you have a husband and after 3 months he chooses to live with another woman...would you like that? would you live in peace ? I think that every move we make and every choose you do will come back to us and sometimes it will hurt very much ....if you choose to go out and look for an available guy things will be ok for you and your life will be much better...
2006-06-10 05:30:00 · answer #5 · answered by cristina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are worried that 6 weeks might change the way your or he feels about this situation is your answer....
Wait. Let it happen. Thing will be they way the will be- no matter how much rushing or worrying we do. Take the 6 week break- and just know if he isn't the one, then that just means the One is still out there looking for you!
2006-06-10 05:23:07 · answer #6 · answered by thelissabeano 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times have I heard that story. Not personally because I don't date married men. But my friends have.
Lose the loser. he is not going to leave his wife.
Get out of the relationship now and don't let him near you again.
With a baby coming he will always be connected to his wife , even if he leaves, and you will always wonder.
2006-06-10 05:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are newly wed.
If you have any conscience at all you would leave him and not have anything to do with him. He cheats on his wife of 3 months. How can you like such a man?
2006-06-10 05:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it take for you to get a clue? He is married and cheating with you. What does that make you. And his wife is pregnant. Get out of this ugly mess immediately. You are hurting his wife and the baby and you will be badly hurt, too.
2006-06-10 05:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and take your time away to get over him.
By lying to you and cheating on his wife, this man clearly does not have your best interests at heart. We all deserve a man who does.
Don't waste your time any further. You deserve and will find someone to treat and love you respectfully and fully.
2006-06-10 05:23:42 · answer #10 · answered by bad_girlfriend? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is your problem. He is a loser and how could you be in love with someone who has taken vowels before God and broke them to cheat and still playing both sides.
Suggestion get counseling, move on
2006-06-10 05:23:41 · answer #11 · answered by Love_is_there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋