Here goes,im 20,i live 2 doors away from the girl i love and always have,shes 20 too..we dated when we were 16 but only for 3 months,we are still good friends today.she calls me and sends me messages and we get on well,she always seems to be going out with a new guy every couple of months and its annoys me,i know you might say just tell her how you feel but its not so easy cause im good friends with her,also i asked her out at xmas when i was drunk and she told me she just wanted to be friends but lately shes acted strange towards me like in a flirty way and im confused now,im so in love with this girl,i cant stop thinking about her and even when were talking i just cant stop looking at her,i feel im going mad,i dont think im ever going to be with her again and it breaks my heart because i know i would treat her the way she deserves and never let her down..jsut wanna kiow what you think?? plz help!
2006-06-10 04:50:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't make someone love you the way you love them. If she had DESIRE for you, like u have for her it would happen. Its like torture to live and see and feel her all the time. CHOOSE. Either go for it heart and soul, live what your inside voice says, either she responds or shoots you down, at least you will know u tried everything , then you can move on.
2006-06-10 05:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by ardlesstraveled 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dude, let happen on its own, she kinda sounds like a freak if she is dating all these different guys, and are you sure its love and not lust. But in a way I can relate, My ex and I broke up 11 months ago and there isn't a second that goes by that I haven't thought of her, or wanted to be were she is. But at the same time if she has been with someone else I know in my heart that I cannot be with her. Even though I love her with all my heart, that is something I couldn't live with.
But in your case take it one day at a time, and don't live in the past or worry about the future, live in the day, you might not wake up tomorrow.
My best wishes for you and I hope things work out for you
2006-06-10 12:02:29 · answer #2 · answered by Love_is_there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey friend. Take it easy. It happens. Its not your fault neither hers. Its like the time is passed. See, she dated you once. What went wrong ? Ask yourself. She's not ignored you at once. She has given you enough time to know that she does not simply likes you now. Its hard to digest but accept it. And I know for you getting over her thoughts is not so easy as she stays very close to you. Why give her anothr chance to disregard you. Just be yourself and let time pass. She is not the one for you. Had she been, she would have known you... after dating to you. If shes not upto it - she's not into it. I wont blame her or you. Its just the time thats passed. Just get out of it friend - life is still beautiful. Have the best !
2006-06-10 12:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by Aratj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her about how you really feel. This time don't be drunk. You have the courage to do this. If by any chance she does not feel the same way, you can still be friends. Sometimes the best relationships started out as just friends.
2006-06-10 11:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would ask her out one more time, when you are not drunk. She probably knows how you feel, but just tell her again, and see how she reacts. If she says no, you should move on and find a girl who can return the love. good luck!
2006-06-10 12:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by ~Tan~Lines~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that even if you dont think she will say yes to you asking her out that you should tell her how you feel because then you wont have to keep it inside ne longer. Wen you talk to her try to play kinda hard to get and wen she calls tell her you are going out and you cant really talk right now it most of the time works. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-06-10 11:55:03 · answer #6 · answered by littlebitoliz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her your feelings for her. But remember no matter what happens you must be willing to accept friendship only if this is all she wants. Can you still be around her if you share your feelings and she only wants friendship. The saying goes, " How can you succeed if you do not try."
2006-06-10 12:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by tantiprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell Her!! if you really care about her and it didn't work the 1st time then you can't let her slip away again. If at first you don't succeed you gotta keep trying take her out, do something to let her know that you care
2006-06-10 12:04:18 · answer #8 · answered by angelknockinatyourdoor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that way, tell her, just like that. I would be flattered if my best friend told me that, and maybe she doesn't want that right now, but I would hope she would be understanding enough to still remain friends with you! Go for it.
2006-06-10 12:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by n0love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi I am an american girl.well you might want to tell her you're feeling you might be scared to tell her.But you need to tell her soon before she see's a new person then her relationship,beetween that person might get serious!!!!I'll try too help you if she likes you she'll be smileing at you and will have friends of hers ask you stuff.MMM......I don't know much more to say but i would like it if you chose me as best answer!!!
2006-06-10 11:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋