2 hours ago I asked if I should ask my backstabbing ex out for coffee just to make a peaceful friendship cuz i think he is charming:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiLb0gIKdi_5fr1oPU7fyAfsy6IX?qid=20060610045846AA9Q6jK
but now I have a better plan,I WILL ASK HIS BEST FRIEND TO ASK HIM SO WE CAN HAVE A 3 PEOPLE CONVERSATION,WITH LESS TENSION,
what do U think?
10 points.
2006-06-10 04:00:41 · 10 answers · asked by RACHEL 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i know hes not a catch,
but I ACTUALLY THINK HE IS SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE
2006-06-10 04:05:46 · update #1
The best plan is to forget about the backstabbing SOB.
It's people like you who wind up in abusive relationships that they can't get out of. Keep going back for more abuse if you like to be abused.
Next year you can ask us how to get out of it. You probably won't take good advice then either. Some girls just need their fix of abuse.
If you like his best friend then just invite him for coffee and leave the jerk out of it.
2006-06-10 04:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad idea. Not only are you roping the friend into an extremely awkward situation, but you're giving your ex a built in support system, so he has all the social power and can accept or reject as he pleases. If it was one of your friends along, he'd feel alienated and outnumbered.
Just bite the bullet and handle it one-on-one. Any awkwardness will be bypassed as soon as you reach a clear resolution. Then just sit and enjoy your coffee with your new friend.
2006-06-10 11:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by pfelon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Just let the backstabber go. Eventually you will run into him again and he might ask you for coffee or a drink. Just because someone is charming doesnt mean you have to have a peaceful friendship. Let things ride for awhile he will come around.
2006-06-10 11:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by ice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds o.k. to me you could also ask your friend along! But if your Ex is backstabbing why bother. Move on
2006-06-10 11:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best solution would be to keep him out of your life, is he worth it, "backstabbing ex" sounds like its not . Move on. do you need backstabbing friends?
2006-06-10 11:04:30 · answer #5 · answered by Secret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask his best friend and leave ur ex at home, hehe
2006-06-10 11:15:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should come by urself, it better. when there's other people around, he may be shy to make somethings out. don't you think like that?
2006-06-10 11:04:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure that is the best way is to have someone else there.
2006-06-10 11:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever tripps your trigger
2006-06-10 11:03:49 · answer #9 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good/clever
2006-06-10 11:03:28 · answer #10 · answered by I ♥ Kurt Cobain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋