i am dateing this guy but i really like two other guys. i like them all the same. what should i do?
2006-06-10 03:15:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The answer to this depends upon where your relationship has gone with this first guy. What are his expectations for your relationship. If you are not serious about him....by all means.....let him know and move on.
There is a reason they call going out with someone a date. It is to get to know that person. Going out does not mean you are committed for live. Especially if you like more than one guy.
If sex has entered the picture with the first guy you have a problem. This always brings with it certain expectations. Not with all guys but with many.
The real question here is how you feel about this first guy. What ever you do....do not....settle for one person at his point out of concern for their feelings. It is important but rest assured...if you settle...you will pay for it down the line and so will he.
2006-06-10 03:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There are no two people the same,so you can't like them the same.You have to chose.Unless your gonna play one against the other and that can be very dangerous
2006-06-23 21:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date all of them. Just make sure you don't give any of them the illusion that he's your favourite. Eventually you will make a choice.
Of course, you mustn't get upset if one of your dates starts going out with other women as well.
2006-06-10 10:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
date one at a time until you are dating all of them at once then break up with one guy at a time until you are left with the one you like better!
2006-06-10 10:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by Interested Fish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're greedy. Choose one and stick with him. There's always that ONE guy who connects with you on all levels. If none of them do, then none of them are for you, and it's clear you're basing your affection for them solely on the physical level and the generic emotional level(i.e., "Gee, he's talking to me and he listens to my problems. He must be my soul-mate.). Try challenging the guys intellectually, then you'll see which one truly understands you physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Aria
*The illnovelist*
2006-06-24 04:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by illnovelist 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you date someone thats gonna make you happy!
Don't like someone whos gonna slapp you or anybad things!
You need to choose wisley and makesure ur happeier than ever!
2006-06-10 14:46:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the question is why are you dating any body, win, you don't know
what you want, and who you want, maybe you need to figure that
out first before you play with these men feeling, don't you think?
you know what they say what go around come round. why you
playing.....
2006-06-18 02:14:54 · answer #7 · answered by jazzsinger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them true go whit one u relay like becuses u are going to hurt other ppl are my be causes so figth u never no u want to keep all of them friends yes i know i just went true something like that
2006-06-10 10:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by prinalt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date all of them then choose
2006-06-10 10:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by EyasOo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it open and just deal with all of them as friend es until you know which 1 you want for yourself ?
2006-06-10 10:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by annabello726652003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋