look ,i love her alot but some times we just dont see eye to eye,she thinks sometimes i dont have her back against her crazy *** family,and in fact i always do, not to pat my self on the back am one loyal sob.maybe too much.but this is like twice this week we got into it and yesterday right or wrong i appologizied,ya know it dont matter i would rather eat humble pie than go on all day then be misrable.so last night we met are dj for the wedding to pick out are songs with my family ,and all was good until we got home and she called her mom and sisster who still lives with her mommy at 43 with child.so then they didnt see eye to eye about something i didnt even understand and next thing shes going off on me.and usually i am a passive guy but as she was going on and on ?ing my loyalty i lost it ,i told her i dont even want to go though with it ,i was pissed.this morning i don t really hate her any more but i m not bending ,no way,what do you guys think?
2006-06-10 03:00:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
According the author/marriage counselor Michael Webb, he says that if your fiancee/fiance/girlfriend/boyfriend spends wayyy too much time with their family and not enough time with you, then he/she is not ready to get married. Especially, when people have problems in their relationship and they always run back to mommy and daddy's house, then they are not ready to get married. Problems are solved within the relationship, not outside of it. Michael Webb has been married to his wife for over 12 years and never had a "fight" with her. You can find more info about him and his 50 secrets to blissful relationships at ---> http://www.50secrets.com/
2006-06-10 05:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about- i know thats its easier to hope it will all just go away but it wont. you guys have to sit down and maybe you can start by asking her just listen to your point of view with an open mind and when youre done she can do the same. relationships take comprimising but it shouldnt always have to be you. she should do it too. communication is the key - ive learned the hard way - :) good luckl
2006-06-10 10:54:34 · answer #2 · answered by tulips♥77 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the joy of wedding planning, there are going to be moments where you hate her and don't want to go ahead and marry, trust me i am going through that, but it will pass. don't let it get to you (that is what everyone is telling me) Just let her vent and say OK. but it will be fine, Marry and make sure she knows how you feel. Don't hold the feelings inside.
2006-06-11 02:17:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if this relationship is Going to work, Please listen to me and get some therapy... you will need it!
2006-06-10 10:04:40 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋