my bf missunderstood me before 3days , that was his fault that's why he missunderstood me , he don't trust me . and he didn't call me this 3days , or give me any message . i didn't call him too . because it was his fault , and every saterday he do this with me . now what should i think he loves me now or not ?? plz help me , it's important to me . plzzz help me
2006-06-10
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➔ Singles & Dating
Seems to me that he is your Monday to Friday boyfriend. On the weekend he has no time for you because he is probably hanging with is friends. Let this arshole run. Look for someone who knows how to treat a lady.
2006-06-10 02:39:55
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answered by hpadbanabhan 2
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You said that he misunderstood you. With that, he may still think that he is right and that is why he does not want to give in. If I were you, I would call him and explain that he misunderstood you. With patience, relate to him the subject matter at hand making extra careful that you explain that to him with clarity and conciseness. Don't stop until he understands you. If you really love him. tell him that you will not ever let your relationship be affected by miundestanding alone.
His not calling you for three days is not a sure sign that he loves you less or doesn't trust you anymore. May be, he's just thinking things over. But the initiative should come from you to speak to him. There's no harm in being humble. It will work to your relationship's advantage. When you are right, let him see it, when he is wrong, let him know and admit it. When both of you are wrong, let your love be your guide in making your relationship survive the tests of time and space about love and its uncertainties. Good luck.
2006-06-10 09:53:41
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answered by Ruzzo 4
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I do not know how old you are but I have been single for 20 years, so I have been around (plus married) ! My opinion is when I man does what your BF is doing. I would say keep letting him have bad manners or MOVE ON SWEETY! Unless he is willing to talk about what he is doing & makes a effort to let you know what is going on, he is never going to. No man is worth putting up with excuses for bad manners. There are plenty of fish in the sea, OK? And if your young, you have many choices. Believe me.
Bad news is: its a sad world that there are so many jerks or bad boys in this world. But I brought 3 fine sons into this world, so there are some good ones out there. Hang in there.
2006-06-10 09:53:28
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answered by HD B 1
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Is this relationship worth saving? If yes then take on the blame even if it wasn't your fault and you will see that he will appreciate you better because you care about this relationship.
By the way when you apologize, which you will have to do, do say it was your fault, don't say it was his in any way shape or form. Take the blame because it will only build a stronger relationship.
If you don't believe me try it!
2006-06-10 09:42:29
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answered by Sweet n Sour 4
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he do love you no question about it.But only pride that govern both your heart..and why every Saturday?well girl do some investigation not just you sit there and wait..if this happens every Saturday well something fishy going on....I'm not implementing something just do your own research now before its too late.
2006-06-10 09:41:04
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answered by effy 3
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help yourself first and have some reservation on yourself then call your bf and ask him if she still want the relationship or maybe hes just fooling around you
2006-06-10 09:42:36
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answered by a&d 2
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well im a guy so take this from me we are asshole sometimes and dont think of our gfs when we should are when they need us the most even to say srry we wait for them to say srry firs. sometimes i do the same thing to my gf bnut i love her
2006-06-10 09:40:21
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answered by Anonymous
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You have to decide which is more important to you:
a) being "right"
b) your feelings for your bf.
If it's "b" then suck up your pride and call him to discuss it.
Good Luck
2006-06-10 09:39:50
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answered by JeffyB 7
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I think he just get shamed about you because of his mistakes about you.
2006-06-10 09:39:51
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answered by Anonymous
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hmm...
lets think of it this way.
saturday=is night out day
if you guys fight on that day...
it means..
he's seeing someone else.
2006-06-10 09:44:17
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answered by ♥ hOnEy ♥ 3
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