Aww come on girls help me (secd post)?

Question

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Umm ok i a 14 year old guy and i had a girl freind like 2 years ago and i stoped trying to get a girl freind but now when i TRY....Hell no i cant even get a girl to talk to me. Heres an example i see a girl walking and i try to start a conversation or just talk SHE WONT EVEN LOOK AT ME!!! ok like 2 houers i see another girl so i try a diffrent approch. She walks by me and i say "You look hot" Nothing wont even look.


Ok what do i do,WHAT THE HELL DO I DO!!! :' (
Do i just smile or what?
Im sorry for my spelling.
HELP

Answer 1

when you see a girl in the hallway you should smile at her and when she looks at you and sees you smiling look away but keep walking. Kepp doing that and if you ever see her standing at her locker or something go up to her and try to start a conversation. Just try not to act to perverted cuz that is a total turnoff! I am 14 too so maybe my advice will help!!! Girls our age love compliments like "your hair looks awesome like that" I know all the girls in my 9th grade class love a guy to compliment her...Best of Luck!
~Tiffany~

Answer 2

Okay,here's part of your problem..... girls don't respond to passing compliments. The reason..... the girls you say it to are not looking for that kind of attention. Try starting a conversation about something you have in common. It could be as simple as a class you have or had together. Build a repor with her. She will eventually get to know you also. Look for body language too. See if she looks at you or her attention wanders off. If she leans in slightly, if she smiles, if she takes her hand and brushes her hair back and then her eyes blink some, or if she seems nervous.....those are good signs that it may be okay to ask her out. Hope that helps a little

Answer 3

Dude - first don't confine yourself to asking girls - do you REALLY want all that abuse and no info?

Second, don't say "you look so hot" - girls are physically weaker than you and if you look at them the way a tiger looks at a zebra in the wilderness they will be scared.

Third, I hate to tell you this, but you're 14 - alot of things are going to f-cked up for the next four or five years. Don't get me wrong, do the best you can - don't wait, but it's normal for things to be out of whack for that period.

I called all girls "b!tches" in HS. When someone asked me why, I said "because that's what they are." And many were, but not all. But you've got to tone it down. Move slowly. I understand you're probably horny as anything - but you must be patient and in control or you'll frighten these girls off - and virgins will often protect their virginity for a long time - for them it's like a wine that ages and gets better and better. (For us it's like a congenital disease that doesn't show symptoms until puberty, but gets worse from there).

And your spelling - just hit CHECK SPELLING - what's wrong with you - if you can't do something so easy and so simple to make yourself not look so dumb, how can you ever expect a girl to take you seriously?

Oh yeah - and don't start any sentence with "um". Show some confidence or at least a definite purpose.

Answer 4

The girls won't conversate with kids.

Answer 5

if I'm understanding your question...you are trying to say is .that girl's don't even look at you when your trying to talk to them?...well...stop trying ...to talk to them. when your girl comes along ...you won't even have to say anything to her..the girls you are trying to talk already may have a boyfried...or.....you just don't have that sex appeal yet....14yo....? wait till next year....go get them...tiger!!!!!!

Answer 6

don't try!!!
if u got girls when u didn't try
then stop trying...