He was really drunk and didn't notice it was me and not my sister (we're identical twins). Should I tell her that I took advantage of him? Or just leave it alone?
2006-06-10 01:28:22 · 33 answers · asked by Flower 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you whore!!! do you have pics?
2006-06-10 01:31:48 · answer #1 · answered by spyderman1212 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
You shouldn't tell your sister, especially since he was drunk. Keep in mind that you are identical twins, he thought you were her. Just leave it alone and don't ever do that again.
2006-06-10 01:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you! What kind of a sister are you? To do what you did, you obviously don't respect your sister and now her husband has cheated and it's not even his fault! Tell your sister and make sure to take the blame. Hopefully she's a better person than you and will be able to find it in her heart to forgive you. You also need to get on your knees and pray to God for forgiveness. Let this be a lesson learned.
2006-06-10 04:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling your twin sister will only make things worse. Telling your brother-in-law what he did will only make his ego big. and tell his friends, and then It will get back to your twin.
Just leave it alone, if you need to tell someone tell it to a stuffed animal they will never reveal your secret, also try and stay calm as possible around the two of them.
Husbands/men will come and go, but twins!!!!
DON'T RUIN YOUR SPECIAL BOND!!!!!
Hope this helps
2006-06-10 04:02:35 · answer #4 · answered by jburgess39 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have sinned not only to your sister but to God. Marriage is sacred and should not be abused.Confess your sins to God first and ask Him for grace to confront your sister. Moreover you are twins, the same blood runs through both of you.The same vein, artery.everything is one within you.If you fail to tell her you will forever be hurt at her sight thereby imprisoning yourself spiritually and someone else somewhere will do it to you,it's not a curse but the fact and real truth.God loves you and wants you to have your peace.Your sister will only be angry with you for a while but that cord that link two of you 2gether cannot be broken and whatever you get out of it know that it is as a result of your sin.But most importantly make peace with GOD.
2006-06-10 01:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by golden G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would really hurt your sister!
i guess you took advantage of your sister's husband because he was so drunk. what was your reason sleeping and having sex with him? you knew he's your sister's husband. are you in love with him? jealous of your sister? trying to ruin their relationship?
you will not hurt you sister but will ruin everything...
if you're a REAL sis, move away, drift off and say no more...
let the incident die down and never to seek it again...
2006-06-10 01:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by curiosity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. Why hurt your sister if you don't have to and if he was drunk and did not know the difference he is not going to say any thing.
2006-06-10 01:45:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to ruin her marriage AND your relationship at the same time? Well, that's two birds with one stone. No, I wouldn't tell her. I would, however, tell her husband so that he doesn't bring up what great sex he had last night and really mess things up.
2006-06-10 02:10:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was drunk and didn't decide that u are her sister,what was ur thinking and where ur brain at that?! first of all u have to stop drinking it's a bad habbit and will drive u for all alot of sins and bad things in ur life,and it's one of them,u have to tell ur sister because she will know later anyway if not now,so when u who tell her she will understand and forgive and know that it's fault ,better than knew from others,then it will be bad,just stop drinking and tell ur sister all the truth
2006-06-10 01:35:12 · answer #9 · answered by Nabiloo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Tell her. She's going to find out eventually,
then she'll have an added reason: your not telling
her - to hate or strongly dislike and avoid you.
Give her the freedom to act and move from
this situation by telling her the truth.
2006-06-10 01:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, it is difficult to keep a secret like that, but let's face it, you brought it on to yourself, so, the least you can do for your sister is live with such a secret. Deny it if he tells her.
2006-06-10 01:45:35 · answer #11 · answered by Laura Palmer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋