not very beautifull girl. what must I do?

Question

I love a girl and wanna to marry but she is not vey beautifull and has not good body. if it make problem in raltionship. I`m attracted to other and it make me guilty.

Answer 1

If you REALLY love someone,
looks aren't all that important.

Answer 2

Well I'd have to say that if you claim you love her you would NOT be having the wondering eyes on other women. Maybe try to think of it this way, if you were the one who was unattractive would you want your other half to make such a big issue. I mean don't you think you are being superficial and narrow minded? I thought being in love with some one meant that you loved the person unconditionally. I think that if you feel this way you should really reconsider marriage and possibly ending the relationship. The minor issue of the wondering eye could become more serious and lead into cheating and hurting each other. Maybe you both should consider looking deeper and find out what you both really want out of the relationship. You might find out that you are confusing a great friendship with love. Good Luck!!!!

Answer 3

I can say this, if you don't find her attactive get away (for a while). It is very important at first and you need to go into a marrage with any baggage. It is important to her to that she knows you find her attractive. Second guessing this is to important, it will effect you later in life.

However, looks will change and most girls do get well lets say they change and don't look thin or attractive forever. As you grow older together, then a deeper love will form coming deeper within but it happens in time. Don't feel bad by those that say, you sound like your love only goes skin deep because deeper love often takes time, specially with most guys.

If you married her without a good feeling going into it, you will wonder all your life if you made a good choice. If you back off for a while, you might find out you just don't care how she looks like and realize you love her and done care about her looks or you might find someone else. She needs to know you find her attractive, so this is just as important for her as it is for you.

Answer 4

if u love her, why does it matter. If you marry a beautiful girl who you may not love so much but looks nice and then if she becomes not so body beautiful, then what?????

If you love her nothing matters, you must learn to love her as she is, dont change her, and may be she is smarter than you, so should she marry someone more intelligent than you

actually i think she should, you only want to look at her after marriage, she'd rather marry someone who has brains enought to talk to her and appreciate as well. dont think of such petty things, life is long, you get old and come to a point when these things dont matter, what matters is nice companionship, love her marry her, other things will follow suit and may be if she feels you don like whatever you don like about her and she loves u she will try ot change whatever she can for u

Answer 5

If you cant look past her so called not outward beauty and love and cherish her for her inner beauty that will never fade then do not marry her and let her go. I feel so bad for her and you seem quite shallow but please do not lead her on and find someone that does attact you! Outward beauty will fade and go away over time but inner beauty is eternal and are you really great looking yourself and can get any women you want?

Answer 6

I wonder what she says about your flaws and imperfections.
No, you should not get married. You are not mature enough and do not have a concept of what love is.

Answer 7

beauty should be in your thoughts and opinions, then it does not bother that ur face is beautiful or not or you are having a body which can be loved in bedroom

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Answer 8

I think attraction and love go hand in hand.

Answer 9

if u dont like way she looks break upwith her then..