why does avoiding a problem equal immediate gratification?

Answer 1

its like taking a pain killer .
the actual disease never disappear...only u feel better.

Answer 2

Because this is sadness of human being world. Being coward isn't it most respected, than denying others the right to ignore that we can feel different and act on it.

A world of people who lost the driving force for their selfesteem.

It's more confortable in the society to pretend we don't see without the pink panthere's glasses. There is no pollution in the world, the weather is changing on the planete, it doesn't matter to destroy human great aspects. The jungle spirit died when we left the caves and became more civilised, our survival instinct and strength is dying.

The reality of life is not funny to face up, sometime we need to feel the confort and beauty of life to stay strong. Shame on us to lie that far ! Just pretending everything is perfect, why not but it's not me. I don't like these kind of gratification, that was my problem in Australia, I don't like superficial and not real things. I don't want be perfect anymore.

I adore serenity, sincerity and courage of being the one who fall out of the chair and won't be perfect. This is my way. I don't mind. I'd rather be the one that will disappoint and that will avoid gratification.

Answer 3

Because dealing with a problem may be difficult. And because difficulty can be unpleasant, avoiding difficulty could be considered the opposite of unpleasant. And the opposite of unpleasant, which is pleasant, can be gratification. This gratification is immediate because it comes in the moment you decide to avoid the problem.

Answer 4

You're temporarily relieved of the problem...but avoidance doesn't solve the problem...only delays it.

And often, the problem becomes even more complicated!

Answer 5

First of all stop avoiding problems.
instead, face every problem with courage and one problem at a time.