im 21 and i havent had sex yet i guess i tell my self that im looking for some one that i love and not just any one. most of my friends say that i should be having fun at my age and i need to get around a bit and get some experence and just have some fun etc
im a little worried too now that when i meet a girl that i wont be good enough or know what im doing and that it could make problems in a relation ship
what should i be doing???
2006-06-09 23:07:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
plz don't listen to the ppl who tell u to rush into things and just "have fun". sex isn't supposed to be "just" that. it's supposed to mean something.
u r a stand-up guy and r very special. not many (if any at all) men ur age (or any age for that matter) think the way u do. any girl would be lucky to have u and i'm sure they won't care at all about ur lack of experience in the field. everyone has a first time and believe me, it doesn't require practice to be good. the quality isn't by any means analogus towards the quantity!! sex is pleasurable when u really mean it and give it a cause. when u want to actually give to the person u love a part of your soul. that is when u give it all u got and believe me..it does come naturally.
although, just so u don't stress urself out too much, take the previous answerer's advice and watch an educational video (note: NOT PORN - that'll give u completely the wrong idea!!) and read a few books. that will help u get ur self-confidence up.
best of luck!!!
2006-06-09 23:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by bukroot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some books about it like The Lovers Guide or watch the instructional video that accompanies it! Everyone has a first time so don't worry too much about it or you will stress yourself to the point that you can't do anything anyway!
2006-06-09 23:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 without marriage is a sin.... so u'll be in hell
2006-06-09 23:27:08 · answer #3 · answered by didi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋