If you had a friend who constantly dropped you and her other friends for her bloke, then when they split always wants you meet up and listen to her problem at the drop of a hat what do you do? And then if you dont beacuse your busy she then ignores you and always has an excuse for why she couldn't talk, text etc? Is she worth it?
2006-06-09 22:35:21 · 12 answers · asked by I~Love~Baileys 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she maybe doesn't realise she is doing it - hard to believe i know. but when my sister started with her boyfriend - soon to be her husband she did the same thing to her friends and i tactfully pointed out that it really wasn't fair.
try asking her to go out with just the two of you- a meal or shopping for example. you might then both be able to discover why you started to be friends in the first place.
friends are good for support when you need a moan, and when you get a man it's hard to divide the time equally. if she is doing this to you with no regard to your feelings though then that also isn't fair. her man also needs to understand that friends are there for her and she needs to support that relationship as well. relationship between couples don't work without regular hard work - and friendships are the same.
if you can't come out and say that her behaviour is making you feel like this, then try going out and saying something like - this is a man free zone this afternoon -we are not going to mention them at all, instead we are going to be girls.
if she doesn't change her behaviour over the next few months, then sometimes friendships don't last, even if we wish that they did
hope this helps you
2006-06-09 22:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by rheainscotland 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so hun I've had a friend like that before and to be honest they're not true friends. Leave it go it's more trouble than it's worth. Try and look after number one for a while- Good luck with it!!
2006-06-09 23:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by little pink dynamite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might simply not realise that she offends you by doing this. Talk to her about it, tell her how you feel - don't get all upset and emotional about it, just explain in a friendly, matter of fact way, so that she sees it from your side. Then, see if she changes her behaviour. If she does, all well and good. If she doesn't, then at least she can't say she didn't know.
Hope this helps.
2006-06-10 00:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by fallen angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend may be worth it but she is definitely not one of those to you.
2006-06-10 00:22:59 · answer #4 · answered by tantiprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she can't make time for your issues and can't accept the fact u have a life and don't always have time for hers then u don't need her.
2006-06-09 22:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by rachellynn200 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gal she is definitely not your friend she is just using you. Pliz get a real and good friend trust she doesn't deserve you.
2006-06-09 22:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by litaqua17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've had a similar experiencea nd unfortunately i was so happy my friend was talking to me again that i let her get away with it. now i regret it because all she was doing was using me. i would tell her that you want her to treat you properly.
2006-06-10 09:53:00 · answer #7 · answered by safwaansh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! she is just being mean if she wants to play rough you play rough show her how it feels
2006-06-09 22:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by love me cutie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have a very hard question, but u forgate it because it could not happen with u.
2006-06-09 22:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by axay192 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,go tell her to suck eggs.sounds like she's self centred a me,me,me person
2006-06-11 07:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by Paul S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋