Why is it that when people see me for the first time, they think of me that I'm arrogant, but when they know me well, I'm not. I have only few friends but they are honest, simple, not arrogant. Is there any problem with my personality?
2006-06-09 22:08:00 · 11 answers · asked by TELL_ME 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would rather have a few honest friends then the drama of a bunch of arrogant a$$es. It's good that you are choosy, continue to make good informed decisions like that and you can avoid alot of unnecessary troubles in your future.
2006-06-09 22:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by DeltaQueen 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no. that is you. the great thing is, you turn out what people think you are. probably you can loosen up a little bit. you are the type of person that people will have to know. i know a many people but only a few of them are real friends. you have every right to be choosy. real good friends are hard to find.
2006-06-10 05:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with ur personality....so u like to be choosy about u let into ur inner circle...what is wrong with that....nothing wrong with only letting in people u trust.....I have a few aquaintances, but only like 4 people in my entire life that I would absolutely trust with every aspect of my life....I am choosy because I am a single Mom....dont want a bunch of dead beats or losers hanging around my kids....but there is nothing wrong in it....
2006-06-10 05:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by mysticfairy74 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The person that is judging you is arogant, not you.
I say, don't worry about those people, and I don't really think that I can tell you if there is something wrong with your personality because I don't know you.
I only have a few friends, and that's the way I think that it should be, there is nothing wrong with you, and believe you me, you don't want to have too many friends.
Good Luck
2006-06-10 05:14:03 · answer #4 · answered by The~Before~&~After 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens it is not that u r arrogant, may be ur behaviour them feel that.
try to cool down.
try and make new friends.
and adjust with the friends u have.one should be choosy in making friends otherwise might get cheat in a true friendship.
2006-06-10 05:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by archana k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe... although being choosy is good. But if people are the one that are separating from you, then yes you really do have a problem.
2006-06-10 05:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by athame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nthns wrong moreover this is natural too
1 just cant let himself get drifted away and hurt his own soul n think tht u hav made frendz wid people u would never want to be like even by mistake!!
2006-06-10 05:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by tripti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know something.........our outer looks is completely different from our inner looks,just have a cute smile in ur cute face and that's the best looks i must say.................and abt friends,than i just think that u dont want friends not just to have fun but for help and who will understand and will never betray u.......
2006-06-10 05:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by mou93_thegr8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i m a bit like u.i 2 hv few friends
2006-06-10 05:33:38 · answer #9 · answered by n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you actually are arrogant there isn't
2006-06-10 05:13:12 · answer #10 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋