I have always felt left out of things. I am a Native man and I married a white woman. I have always felt that people do not become friends with my wife because of me. I always have my heart ripped out when this happens because I feel that I drag her down. I feel that hope is going and that she'll be lonely all because of me!!! Help me, my heart is so tender. I feel like such a disgrace!!! I need some words of comfort(sob!!)
2006-06-09 20:50:45 · 9 answers · asked by Obi-wan Kenobi 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Thank you for your words of comfort. I cry as I type these words. I wish there were more people like you out there. May Heaven keep you all.
2006-06-09 21:02:09 · update #1
Oh HON,
Please don`t feel like that. I bet it would break her heart if she knew you felt like this. Please.. SHE loves YOU, Isn`t that enough?? She chose you. She could have chosen anybody else but, SHE CHOSE YOU. Don`t dishonor that by feeling this way. Hold your head up and be proud.. Don`t worry about other folks.
DO they pay your house payment?
Do they feed you all?
Do they take care of you?
Are they there when you need someone?
Don`t worry about other people and what they think.. Just enjoy your life with your wife and count your blessings.. Be happy and don`t worry about this stuff..
Good Luck and God Bless..{:-)
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2006-06-09 20:57:45 · answer #1 · answered by jaantoo1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Native what? American Indian? Indian Indian? Australian Aborigine?
Good people become friends of good people. The ones who would avoid your wife are not quality enough humans to be friends.
A Sage once advised to "be in the world, but not of it". True friends are rare. Very rare.
2006-06-10 11:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by who WAS #1? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU need friends that except you both. THIes people you talk about need some education. God dont look at US this way. Go to a nice church or a Jewish church people are g-d fearing there. Most of the people will treat you OK. I FEEL SORRY YOU HAD THIS TREATMENT. I LIKE BOTH OF YOU > dose that count?
2006-06-10 03:57:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the best friends for your wife are ones that are going to judge you that way. Keep going out and meeting new people and you will find decent people soon.
2006-06-10 03:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Scozbo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give a damn to the people who are not friendly, look out for those who are friendly, irrespective of thecolor, caste or creed. mostly, if your wallet is fat, people are more than friendly, so raise your financial status, don't shed those crocodile tears, and sob. i think it's your diffidence getting reflected on your wife. is it so difficult to create a happy world of yor own? let the people go to---! this devil may care attitude might work in this world, my dear!
2006-06-10 04:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by palador 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife loves you, so there is no problem..I don't think that people don't become friends with your wife because of you..Don't worry about it..You love each other..So you won't be lonely ;-)
2006-06-10 03:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Irmak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people act like that to her, they are egotistical asses. and if they act the same way to you, then they need a kick in the ***. there's nothing wrong with you or her and if the judge you guys, then just walk away. you two don't need them.
2006-06-10 03:55:17 · answer #7 · answered by Nicky K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put in your mind that when god love person he make people loves him
2006-06-10 03:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by mohamed_abas_sror 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im one of the only mexicans in my town
2006-06-10 03:54:03 · answer #9 · answered by Dustfinger the master of fire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋