my husbands family always expects us to help them but when we need there help they are to busy why is that seem to be with alot of people in the world today?
2006-06-09 19:53:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They're being selfish. Stop helping them.
2006-06-09 19:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by DiRTy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they still haven't realized that you and your family are not convenience stores. And maybe, just maybe, they don't know this because they don't know how you feel. The best way to deal with it is to first have a talk with your husband about it. Tell him how you feel and decide how to go about the problem. Hope this helps!
2006-06-10 02:59:14 · answer #2 · answered by Absurd Insanity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This world has unfortunately become a selfish one. I do not claim that I am not guilty of this selfishness...this world moves too fast to take time out for people sometimes. I want to change that.
2006-06-10 02:57:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jacinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we are not man of religion and not for world. If we act upon religion then every thing will be good. we only care for material benefits and does not care the religion and in the response we got problems which we could not solves.
2006-06-10 02:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Sajis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to stand on your own two feet and do something about it. i was in your shoes once and my family is the same so i stopped asking them help and now thing are working out.
2006-06-10 03:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a fact, I am saying this because When I need a help from my friend than she started ignoring me
2006-06-10 02:57:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people have become all about the"ME" syndrome. It's all about them and their wants. Stop always being there.
2006-06-10 03:11:05 · answer #7 · answered by SweetSatinDoll47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcoz very few people actually possess the ability or the will to look beyond their own problems and help others.
2006-06-10 04:17:45 · answer #8 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because they r selfish people. and u can even stop helping them
2006-06-10 03:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels good to vent...doesn't it?! I feel your pain. Even so...Come Lord Jesus.
2006-06-10 02:58:28 · answer #10 · answered by midlifecrisis5600 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋