okay my boyfirend had slept with my best ex -firend and he said he was high and she say she was drunk so i guess it was an aciddent but i really love this boy no one has ever love me like this and i love him 2 i love him so much and this relationship is differrent from any other one i had so was i suppose to been had let him go!
2006-06-09 19:36:21 · 7 answers · asked by coco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hunny I know you don't want to hear it but dump the bum! Once a cheater always a cheater no matter what the circumstances. I'm assuming you're pretty young, and probably haven't been in a committed relationship for longer than a year...I myself have been in a relationship for four years and no matter how drunk I've been, or how drunk my partner has been, neither of us have ever cheated...DO NOT let them make BS excuses for themselves because they don't want to OWN UP to their behavior...remember, she was wet and he was hard, and they BETRAYED you together.
YOU WILL FIND LOVE AGAIN! GET RID OF BOTH OF THESE PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE!
2006-06-09 19:42:46 · answer #1 · answered by sassinstyle 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so she is your ex best friend because she slept with your man, but you keep the man...That right there is just stupid. She couldn't have had sex with him if he wasn't willing to do it.
And you are saying you have never had someone love you like that before.
I would hope not...I would hope no one has loved you enough to cheat on you and sleep with your friend.
You better think girl. I understand you love him, but the truth is, he don't care as much about you as you think he does or as much as you want to believe he does. He wasn't thinking about you when he was up in your friend.
And now the only one that is suffering is you and your ex friend, but you are gonna take him back.
You know you should let him go and I know it's hard cuz it's always hard to let go when you care for him, but as much as you love him, you need to love yourself more...
What happens the next time he is high and someone offers him some asss and you ain't around?
Think about that. I already know what your decision is gonna be, but I'm gonna pray that you make the right choice and tell him to leave you alone.
2006-06-09 19:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coco if u feel like what they are telling u is b.s. then leave. Follow your heart, your woman's intuition. If this is his first mistake work through it but if this is a pattern then you gotta let go, sweetie. Whether u want 2 or not because no man is worth ur happiness!!
2006-06-09 19:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i so sad for you . you love she's boy frend he is not your boy friend .hes gon and you still love him poor girl . the best way for you : get and find boy friend a throw boy frind a man not a baby i hop you anderstand me . your boy friend like a ...
if your boy frend know you love he .his gon . i know
2006-06-09 19:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by mehran x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all those are just excuses!!!!second no matter what they were doing they should of felt that way in the first place about each other .also they should of never put theirselves in that position if they were you lover or friend!!!!!
2006-06-09 19:42:59 · answer #5 · answered by skye15_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea let him go next time he'll kno not to get high wen hes not wit u to slep wit!
2006-06-09 19:40:33 · answer #6 · answered by candy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick ur frend's butt and fight 4 ur love... GUD LUK & DON'T GIV UP!!! i support u 100% even i donno u... ;p
2006-06-09 19:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by Summer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋