you think u are in love but when he is not there u just feel normal and when he is there you feel wow what the heck and enjoy the moment,is it just me or i can't feel wat others are feeln for thier boyfriend,i really want to be happy or am i trying to hard?
2006-06-09 19:27:48 · 13 answers · asked by mimi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This happened me once with my boyfriend. The same with you. This happen not because you don't care about him, but because you're rational type a person regarding feelings, there is no reason for you to miss him, and there is no reason why not to feel good when he is. Is your type of person, maybe he is not your big love, when the big love will came you will change your way of missing people
2006-06-09 19:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should kick back a bit. You worry too much, I have learned in my short life, that you don't always have to be their one chasing, starting the subject or hanging around!
I may not have had a girlfriend yet but when I swapped to a new school, I had no friends and did not wait for an invitation to start huntin' for new ones. For 2 weeks, I had no friends. I got upset and decided to let it be. After 3 days, people started talkin' to me, hangin' around, believe me it was the most bizarre thing I had ever experienced, it was as if we swapped places, I started being the one hunt down, not the one huntin' down!
So believe me, sometimes, things cometo you in the least expected way!
But since it's a boyfriend, try being more controlled near him, for 2 weeks and see if something is happening!
2006-06-10 02:35:26 · answer #2 · answered by Prince Charmant! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he is there you feel wow what the heck, and enjoy the moment. When you say i can't feel what others are feelin for thier boyfriends what do you mean? sound's to me like you have a good thing going. maybe it is just a good friendship..
2006-06-10 02:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by autumn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you have it right. Super great to be with him, but you are still able to live your life and have other interests - that sounds perfect. Too many people live and breath their romantic relationships and confuse drama with passion - it's all nonsense. You sound like you have it just right - enjoy!
2006-06-10 02:33:27 · answer #4 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i feel ur problem is related to ur attraction ur bf must be good looking thats why when he is near u
u feel a lot but when he is not there than u dont even remember about him
its completly attraction from ur side if it was love than even if he was not near u, u might be thinking abt him and when he will be near u, u must be just waiting for his smile
so try to figure out wat exactly u need form him
2006-06-10 02:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by snake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you were lonley i would think you would feel empty when he's not there but since you feel normal when he's not there i think you should relax and just feel how you feel. There is no normal way to feel. Don't stress just be happy.
2006-06-10 03:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by charbarski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't decide if your in love or not. whats normal for you, isn't normal for me. or anyone else. you're an individual, so your going to feel different.
2006-06-10 02:34:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are really in love, you don't have to try too hard. Actually. you don't have to try at all. It is what it is.
2006-06-10 02:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by SweetSatinDoll47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be , because I feel the same way and it sucks behind.
2006-06-10 02:34:47 · answer #9 · answered by Svec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u started u asked no one so y r u involvin us now.clean up ur mess.
just for the 2points
2006-06-13 15:10:01 · answer #10 · answered by Brandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋