2006-06-09 19:06:06 · 16 answers · asked by rosesbloom7 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
for money, pleasure, fame
2006-06-09 19:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by SalesGuy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question, so sad that people don't look outside the box to give good answers.
I strongly believe in love and would chose to marry someone i love. but did you know that the most successful marriages are the arranged one? As odd as it might seem, it actually works. that is why the success rates of marriages in other countries survive compared to the western world. Many people, especially ina place like America, marry for the wrong reason.
Think about this. If your marriage is arranged, both of you are pretty much stuck with each other. But before they put the 2 people together, they look at the financial standing, social standing, just about anyway that will make sure that both of you will be secure. You have to learn to deal with each other's triumphs and faults. You actually learn and grow to know each other and love grows as it progresses.
In a "love b4 marriage" situations a lot of people know that they are in love with this person, but they want to keep their individuality. Once you start living with this person, it's fine at first, but then it slows down, mainly because the uphill part was fulfilled before you evern got married.
Anyway, both have their good and bad parts, but in the end it depends on how both parties fight to keep the marriage intact.
2006-06-10 03:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes because they are to young and think lust is love since their not mature enough to understand what love is. Sometimes pregnancy gotta do the rite thing Sometimes they don't want to be alone Sometimes money Sometimes convience just easy to do Sometimes to get a greencard Sometimes to get a parent for children from previous marriage they get anxious for them to have the dad or mom figure back lots of reasons probably more can't think of any rite now though it's late.
2006-06-10 02:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Evidently, it's an arranged marriage. Different strokes for different cultural folks! I understand that the LOVE developes over TIME. It's all about the money!
2006-06-10 02:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are pressured too. Or they can't legally marry the person they love cuz they are gay. Or they think it's the right thing to do cuz they got them pregnant.
2006-06-10 02:08:50 · answer #5 · answered by slee z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a marriage of convenience and each party does there own thing without repercussions emotionally.
2006-06-10 02:08:55 · answer #6 · answered by eugene65ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you because I'm in a relationship like that now. I'm Lady Tee and if you would read my question and details and you will find my answer.
2006-06-11 01:54:02 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Tee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is just a word.
2006-06-10 02:08:56 · answer #8 · answered by arsenic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money, Security or just plain tired of daating
2006-06-10 06:59:26 · answer #9 · answered by SeeNoEvil 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they have kids together and for some dumb reason they think that makes it better.
2006-06-10 02:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They must have mean and egoistic parents like mine
2006-06-10 02:14:44 · answer #11 · answered by merk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋