my daughter is the biggest flirt you have ever seen. she even flirts with my guy friends. why does she do this even after i have spoke with her about it?
2006-06-09 19:01:58 · 17 answers · asked by graceful lady 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
she is 20 years old and she even flirts with her 15 year old sisters boyfriend. it has become a major issue between the two of them.
2006-06-09 19:27:18 · update #1
Is it possible that she doesn't consider what she is doing flirting? Maybe she just thinks she is being friendly... If not then that is the way she is and next time if it bothers you that much call her on it... right at the time she is doing it!
2006-06-09 19:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Your guy friends? Are you being a good example...just asking. Some girls are flirts. The only thing I can think of is to keep talking to her about it and be sure to keep an eye on her. You wouldn't want all that flirting to become something else! I can't really give a better answer than that as I am a guy and don't know her personality and other specifics.
2006-06-10 02:06:56 · answer #2 · answered by EXCAPE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, I doubt your daughter really knows what love is yet, because if she was truly in love she wouldn't really have much interest in other guys. However, she may really like the guy, but just be a natural flirt...there are lots of girls out there that love to flirt.
2006-06-10 02:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well basicly when you cheat on someone you do it because you're a bit tierd of the other person and because you haven't completly explored more into love.Your daughter does love this guy...but shes not ready for a sereouse relationship at all..sooner or later her boyfriend is gonna get really hurt and take it wrong on the actions shes doing..I recommed you to talk to her about the things shes doing because all she wants to do is explore more with other men...because shes been through with the current man she loves.
But also...you say she flirts with other guys?
Well im guessing that she loves getting comploments from other guys.
also talk to her about the attention she wants.
She so wants to hear from other men what they think about her.
2006-06-10 03:14:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't know what love is, she is just a kid. She likes to flirt with guys to see what reaction she can get out of them, I suspect she also told you she loves her boyfriend for the same reason. She just wants to see what you will do.
2006-06-10 02:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she can. she uses her powers of seduction to get what she wants, even if it is just a little fun. it probably makes her feel good to know that she can do so,
as long as she is just flirting, and not acting on it, then i dont see the problem with it.
just make sure she knows that some guys dont like to be teased, and they will force themselves on her if they feel they are being lead on.
2006-06-10 02:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by sobrien 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She gets a charge out of it and so do the guys. Women are like fish, they swim around in schools for protection. It is a social skill she is developing. She maintains control over men while leading them around with her sexual edge..
2006-06-10 02:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder, since she's flirting with your guy friends as well, if she isn't trying to get under your skin. Like most teenagers these days get under the skins of their parents.
2006-06-10 02:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural with every girl.at a pirticula age she's going to understand what love is.right now its just a crush.even i'm like that.but i'm 14.
2006-06-10 02:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by rits_555 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is just how girls are. Wait boys are like that too. I think it is just young human nature. As you get older you realise that you can't do that.
2006-06-10 02:39:19 · answer #10 · answered by tearsforcoldplay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋