I had been in love with this person that I never met for thirteen years and when I met him for the first time I had no feelings. He was so passionate and wanted to hug me and all that but I was holding back. I got confused why did I not had any feelings.
2006-06-09 18:32:32 · 3 answers · asked by bunny_thunny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
emotional attraction is different than physical attraction. you probably were just feeling a little akward because it was the first time you could put a face with the words. Maybe you could spend a little time going out as friends, instead of as a couple, until you are more comfortable around him. Then you could reevaluate the situation and proceed from there. Maybe the feelings need a little more time to fully develope.
2006-06-09 18:39:59 · answer #1 · answered by highgirl_4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you where in shock? perhaps he didnt look the way you wanted and felt a little wierd? or perhaps the ferimons where not right? maybe you just need more time... feel it out and if it still doesnt feel right than end it as soon as possible so feelings will not be as hurt if you let it go on too long.
2006-06-09 18:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by justin l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might have just been scared and in shock that u r finally meeting them. do u have feelings now??
2006-06-09 18:35:20 · answer #3 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋