OK my friends always want me to go to places with them but i dont feel like it and i feel like i have to. And i want to get away from them but they keep coming i go to a small school so i cant go out looking for some new friends because i know everyone!
2006-06-09 18:16:45 · 11 answers · asked by mari 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
well, if they're your friends they should understand that you dont always want to go places. but, i can understand that you dont want to offend them by telling them that..... so, i think if it was me, i'd tell them you have a minor social anxiety disorder. tell them that crowds and going places make you feel uncomfortable, like you might be sick. tell them its fine in small doses, but you need some alone time to stay balanced.
2006-06-09 18:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by hellion210 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them that you feel like staying in tonight. And do it as much as you want. They don't understand that some people are just home bodies, not everyone likes to be around everyone else all the time. I am like you, I like to keep to myself alot.
2006-06-10 01:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Brackalicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't answer your phone and just stay at home. I love being alone and at first my friends didn't understand it, but then I put my needs first and they still don't like it, but I stopped caring long ago.
I just don't go. I tell them I don't feel like going and that I want to be alone and that's that.
2006-06-10 01:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say"I want to be alone" I am just like you ..very independent and I say this to my friends...some are envious because I enjoy my own company. Don't feel bad! U are you're own best company!
2006-06-10 01:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the Public Library or volunteer at the YMCA.
2006-06-10 01:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by fatsausage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well be honest wit them tell them hey today i would just like to relax at home by myself its nothing against you guys but i realy need some time alone
2006-06-10 01:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by dale621 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them you need your space and need a little R & R ( I want to read my book ) is a nice way of sayin', " No Thanx !!! "
2006-06-22 18:25:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jo Jo Gunn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them you want to be alone. if they are real friends they will understand.
2006-06-10 01:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe suggest doing something you want to do.
2006-06-10 01:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by EC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill, and tell them to chill. maybe you all need a vacation away from each other.
2006-06-10 01:20:24 · answer #10 · answered by tulippix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋