normally people say that it is a sin for hindu girl because when she will lost her virginity thats mean that she has lost the reputation of her family.
2006-06-09 18:13:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm not really a big fan of religious regulations, but I'll give my 2 cents anyway :).
Though I don't have great knowledge of the Hindu religion, I know they place considerable regard on a woman's virginity at the time of marriage. As a result, it may be perceived a 'sin' for a woman to have had a sexual relationship prior to her wedding. The way I see it however, if the Hindu girl made the decision to engage in extra-marital sex with someone she loves who returns her feelings of affection, it really shouldn't be an issue lest the couple themselves chooses to make it one.
2006-06-09 19:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is not a religious issue . It is a social issue. And You may have problems.
If the engagement brakes off for any reason , girl will feel guilty even if nobody else knows and there is no direct outside pressure just because conditioning. Even the parents of the boy may not approve such behaviour, and to tell the truth friends who encourage it, are the ones who tell tales with spices later.
Really there is no harm in waiting. Have respect for each other and get to know each other in non sexual way. You have your whole life ahead of you , to explore physical part of relationship.
2006-06-13 05:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by rian30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a sin for any person to have sex before marriage, no matter what the religion is. I am not too familiar with the hindu religion, but I am sure its a sin as well in that religion. But here is my question, if you must have sex, why can't you just repent afterwards? And why would you lose respect for HER? She's good enough to have sex with but after you're done, she's trash? I don't understand religions where women are a sub-person compared to men. Why don't men lose respect for having sex before marriage?
2006-06-10 01:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetask 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sin for ANYONE to have sexual relations before they are married ....Hindu Muslim..Christian ..Jew ...anyone ..because God says so and He makes the rules.
2006-06-10 01:17:25 · answer #4 · answered by Wishing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES its sin and it dosen't say for hindus but for any body on earth
2006-06-10 01:31:22 · answer #5 · answered by boosa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know about the sin, but about the reputation of her family, she is you fiance right?! then marry her soon, she will not lost the reputation then!
2006-06-10 01:18:39 · answer #6 · answered by bonita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her but if you are already engaged simply wait til your wedding night. You could even move the date closer if that would help
2006-06-10 01:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by mrsseifer736 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hindu girls dont do this before marrage it is a disgrace to her religion as well her family..
2006-06-10 01:21:36 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I hear...I think you are correct. May need to marry her SOON, before you just can't respect her anymore buddy.
2006-06-10 01:17:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes silly.
2006-06-10 01:17:23 · answer #10 · answered by russell d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋