i have known deandre since elementary when we met after high school we immediately started somethin. he found someone else that had a better body than me but she as good in the bed as me. he came back yesterday and said he was sorry and he wanted me back. i told him to let me get back to him. what should i do?
2006-06-09 18:06:46 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my ex did that, i took him back several times.
my advice.. NEVER ever ever talk to him again, just forget about him and you will be better off.. SERIOUSLY.
2006-06-09 18:08:33 · answer #1 · answered by Fluffington Cuddlebutts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to realize that if somone does that to you they dont really care about you, they care about themself... the new girl feeling is wearing off on his new girl and now he wants you back so he can be safe and have his stable sex life back. I am a guy I know, If you are comfterble with your man going out and cheating on you and then asking to come back over and over again, or maybe coming back to you for a little while then breaking it off for good....then tell him he can come back, if not then let him suffer the pain of losing you and perhaps the good that can come from this is that he will have learned his lesson and not do it to somone else. Trust me, this relationship is already hurt, there is no piont in trying to mend somthing with a man that is so caulous to hurt you like this in the first place. Find I real man that will love to make love to just you... There are plenty of good men out there that would not treat you this way, but you will only find them if you reject enough of the bad ones. Do what you will, take time and make a decition based on this knowellage, your heart, and your logic.
2006-06-09 18:19:16 · answer #2 · answered by justin l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that you love him and do want to take him back, but think about this...he left you for someone with a better body.
What happens the next time someone with a better anything comes along...Does he up and cheat on you and leave you again.
It shouldn't be about the sex, the body, the looks or anything.
You ought to be smarter than that to know that if he cared about you, no matter what another girl has better than you, if he really cares about you, then he woulnd't mess with other girls.
If you take him back, you are telling him it's ok to go out and mess with whoever and that you will always be there for him when he's done messing around. I hope you are smarter than that.
I know it's hard, but it's harder to move on than it is to stay and let them come back.
2006-06-09 18:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It totally depends on how you feel about the situation. If you feel like you can live with what happened, and that he will come back and be faithful, then continue. If you or he are not happy, as has obviously been the case at least at some point, don't get back together. If you aren't happy, you won't just magically one day be happy.
2006-06-09 18:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by adrianhartery 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I date someone named Deaundre and his ex is pretty crazy so live on. I asked Siri was Deaundre cheating on me and this popped up. But Move on. Life has more To bring that being stuck on someone who does not know what they want.
2014-11-20 02:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by Latasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump his a$$, move on sister and don't look back. You need a man who will treat you with respect. The only way you're going to find this is to start treating yourself with respect. You don't do that by reuniting with a cheater. He is not worthy of you.
2006-06-09 18:11:27 · answer #6 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry!!! All i can say is you are gonna have to move on. Because you can`t afford to go back out with someone that dumped you because he saw another girl who was hotter than you. In my oppinion if he dumps you for someone who is hotter than you, than he aint a good boyfriend to have anyways because, good boyfriends don`t dump their girlfriends for someone who is hotter they love them for them!
2006-06-09 18:14:51 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up Sistah! Drop this loser and find a man that will love and cherish you the way you deserve.
2006-06-09 18:10:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advise,,just forget him.
i bet he has the same personality and he is not changing it.
i think he'd cheat again if u go together.its just gonna hurt u more!
trust me u deserve someone much better than him.just forget him.
2006-06-09 18:16:30 · answer #9 · answered by steff m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#$%@ him girl! he thought the grass was greening on the other side, but he found out otherwise. Don't get mad get even! Trust me he done it once he'll do it again, that's a fact.
2006-06-09 18:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go back love... you have the chance to move on now - take it! You're worth more.
2006-06-09 18:10:13 · answer #11 · answered by soulgirl76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋