my family tells me that im sensitlve b/c when i waz 7 or 8 years i use to cry alot for lil thing any ways but i dont i do cry but not alot i havent cried but how can i prove them wrong i just want them to tell me the things how they are i mean they think that if they tell me that dress makes u look fat im gonna start crying i dont care i wanna hear what my family think? i wanna buy something i and i want them to tell me what they think HELP?
2006-06-09 17:50:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Does it really matter what anyone else thinks? Do you like it? Do you feel good in the dress? If yes, then do it! It's about what you feel and how you think you look. If you try to please others, then it will never please yourself. After all who's going to wear it you or them. DO IT! Please. Buy yourself the dress if you really want it.
2006-06-09 17:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by laylamami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, There is nothing wrong with crying. I have a son that cries a lot but that is his way of expressing his feeling. He wears his heart on his sleeve. Ask your family what they think and and tell them that you are not sensitive and that their opinion means a lot to you and they shouldn't put you down for who you are. Don't let the little things bother you. Be your own self and make your own decision and if nobody like it, Oh well. Buy whatever it is that you want without asking anybody. Worry about what you think and not anybody else. If you don't they will always put you down. Hope this helps!!!
2006-06-09 18:00:09 · answer #2 · answered by robin_2840 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident in Yours approach .
i use to cry alot for lil thing any ways but i dont i do cry but not alot i havent cried but how can i prove them wrong
In these lines your confusion is reflected , Be strong and dont think that you are oversensitive , if your parents and family say it , Obviously they have their reasons.
You should analyse yourself , from your own eye , not your Family's .Talk to youself and be hopeful that you can get through this confusion .
Once you make an aim , and stand firm on it , Be confident , and interact with family , but be firm thats what i mean again and again ...
If someone rejects your ideas or denies you anything , show them that its not like that in real .
Thats how you will get over it .
Interact with your sibligs if you have any ,A jovial , friendly and confident personality is what everyone likes , and you can be one in no time!
Best regards,
2006-06-09 18:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Sidra T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep crying, you'll only make your eyes swollen, and make yourself feel bad. And besides, who says they can think? Develope some backbone and quit being such a cry baby, or you'll grow up that way! Stay away from people that make you feel bad, go into another room, find a hobby, if you like drawing, do it, or listen to music that you like! Do things that make YOU happy. Some people just want other people to be just as unhappy or miserable as they are! Let them know your not going to take their lip anymore by telling them: "Who cares what you think?" Go get your stuff, and if they make one remark, just tell them, "Don't worry about me, worry about yourself" !!! or, "Who cares?" then walk away like you know better than them anyway! Don't give them the satisfaction of making you feel bad. Be happy, EVERYTHING else flows from happiness!
2006-06-09 18:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i dont understand what ur sayin. For God's sake have you read back your question? It has virtually no punctuation and is the most dreadful peace of writing I've ever seen. It is indecipherable and makes absolutely no sense. Learn to communicate and write properly instead of bastardising the English language, then you might be understood a little better. Jules, lecturer. Australia.
2006-06-09 18:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jules G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to take the good with the bad. If you want them to be honest then the honesty will also hurt you. I realize some are perhaps more sensitive than others but every time you do feel your about ready to tear up than take ten deep breaths and it'll just calm you down
2006-06-09 17:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called talking. You talk to your family and tell them the truth. If you expect people to sit around and read your mind, grow up! It doesn't happen! So, get off your tail and speak by all means!
2006-06-09 17:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your wanting to hear all of the negative things that they say to you other wise you wouldnt stand for it, the thing is your the one not thinking in the first place, it's your non-thinking mind that is allowing, and for letting them hurt you all the time! get the hell away from them! period! go stay in a more positive environment.......
2006-06-09 17:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by kournikova57k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They never do. Trust me, I can relate, and I dont know what to do so they will understand me. I dont know what to tell you, but I hope you find a way to turn things around.
2006-06-09 17:54:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are on the sensitive side, but remember, although mom and dad are who they are, it is okay to be you, that's what makes us special, we are all different and unique. Buy what you like and if your comfortable and confident in the dressingroom, then let them keep their coments when you come out
2006-06-09 17:57:39 · answer #10 · answered by paj2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋