2006-06-09 17:25:47 · 31 answers · asked by hmmm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you truly loved this person you would be unabel to cheat you and your spouse could role play meet at a bar and pretend to hook up use difrent names she could wear a wig spice things up at home you could end up giving her aids hepititas or any number of things spare your spouse a slow painful death
2006-06-09 17:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people understand the truth that honesty, virtue and honor are the things that make life worth living. If you cheat at every turn, look for having all the fun you can grab, and only pretend to be honest, you will eventually lose your friends and lovers. You will be alone and miserable ... or die very young. Mr. Scrooge in Charles Dickens' story found that out near the end of his life.
2006-06-09 18:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people are against cheating in marriages,because they are like me,what is the point of getting married if you,re just going to cheat. it has nothing to do with living once or having fun,it has something to do with taking your vows seriously. that means to love,honor,and obey til death do you part. and do you know what is sad? people like you aren,t even marriage material.some people in this world is looking for love or to be loved not only that but they have so much love to give and you are busy worrying about cheating in a marriage wow! i sure hope you are proud of yourself because if i was your husband i would hide everytime i see you.
2006-06-09 17:37:29 · answer #3 · answered by 0samaria s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not against open relationships...just the cheating part...cheating is low life and nasty. IF you want to live it up, then do it above board. Seems that those who cheat the most are the most outraged when their mate does the same thing!
2006-06-09 17:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because all people have a conscience, though some, like you, have worked very hard to silence it, it nevertheless does exist and we not only recognize it, but listen. (for the most part =) If you want to live your life like you should and follow after that which is pure and holy, you will listen to that voice inside that says "sleeping around" is a sin. Best of luck with that!
2006-06-09 17:42:11 · answer #5 · answered by 91Wh!skey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been cheated on twice by my wife . I forgave her and things are fine now. But i would not recommend you cause anyone else the pain and sorrow that i have felt . the nights of endless tears, feeling like half a man cause she went out on me, the ulcers, gray hairs. It was not GOD's plan for us to hurt other humans , even emotionally.. So please do her and yourself a favor , If you love her stay true to her, If the urge to procreate is stronger than your love for her, let her go make a clean break so she doesn't have to deal with that pain. Above all else be honest with her. good luck
2006-06-09 18:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by RM802001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because thats not what marriage is about. It would be like going to a company applying for a job delivering pizza but you decide to deliver cheesecakes you will get fired why promise if you can't deliver Liars -cheaters are just foolish people that don't deserve there spouses their logic don't even make sense just don't marry dihhh why hurt someone you "supposly love" because they want something different out of life.
2006-06-09 18:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating in married life should be resisted.
You live once, don't justify your cheating .
Having fund coudl be achived without cheating your wife.
You do it and feels great is your culture, which can not be availed any specific relief.
2006-06-09 17:31:15 · answer #8 · answered by mkm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how a' bout, it is a sin...you go to hell, you hurt your spouse, kids? , even yourself...You have to lie, make up lie's to cover a lie and eventually you start believing your own lie's.
Have a little more respect for yourself, your spouse and if you have them...your kids.
and do the women you, "GO OUT", with know? If so then they are just as wrong as you.
If not, well there's another one you obvioussly don't give a poo about. Stop hurting your soul. It was A gift FROM GOD.
Just confess to your wife.
Ask her forgiveness, do you honestly think she doesn't know?
MAY GOD HELP YOU...
IF YOU WERE NOT WORRIED ABOUT IT YOU WOULD NOT BE HERE ASKING COMPLETE STRANGERS...
By the way, your wife is gonna probably find out soon and it is going to totally DEVISTATE HER...
HOW CAN YOU SAY TO HER...I LOVE YOU.
You are a liar, and I will pray for you.
If anyone needs GOD it is you.
Find a good church this SUNDAY, and first go and talk to GOD ask HIS forgiveness, then ask HIM to give you the heart to come clean to your wife.
GOD BLESS YOU MAN.
YOU REALLY NEED HIS HELP.
DJ
2006-06-09 17:59:20 · answer #9 · answered by djyo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious, I feel really bad for the person you are married to. If you feel that you only live once, and you want to sleep around, here's a suggestion, do it single! Not only does this show you have no respect for your mate, you lack respect for yourself.
2006-06-09 18:20:02 · answer #10 · answered by SweetSatinDoll47 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the way you feel and want to live it up then stay single and just be a hoe. No need to have other people thinking you like them. That is how people get killed. Don't play with anyone's emotions that is a dangerous thing
2006-06-09 17:34:03 · answer #11 · answered by Making Changes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋