what made you get divorced?

Answer 1

MY HUSBAND WAS A GREAT PROVIDER, BUT THE MAN JUST DID NOT TALK.... IWAS BORED FOR 8 YEARS.

Answer 2

LOL..well I'll give you a man's prospective..I've been divorced twice and the first was after 18 years and her being diagnosed with MS and me not being what she wanted anymore because she thought she had a shorter time to live, not all her fault because if I had always been a good husband she probably wouldn't have felt that way.. The second was because I married a slut..lasted just under 2 years and being told so many times I couldn't count that she was cheating on me that i finally got my fill of it and filed for the divorce.. I'll take responsibility in part for the first but couldn't have changed the outcome of the second other than picking someone different in the beginning.. Good Luck

Answer 3

My wife no longer wanted to be with me. I realize that personal difficulties were present but had she only waited a few months things would have been better. When someone no longer wants to be with you the choices are very few. Divorce is usually the end result. I hate divorce and wish things could have been different but such is life. Be well.

Answer 4

My wife of 18 years had an affair with my best friend, blamed it all on me and threw me out. She told everyone she knew that I was emotionally abusive to her but never mentioned her infidelity to anyone.

I'm better off today. She had emotional problems and never found healing for her wounds. She blamed me for not filling all of the holes in her soul. Those were her exact words. I'm sure there was plenty of fault on my side. But I did the best I knew how to do. I think the real problem was that she expected things out of marriage that simply were not available from any man. She's remarried now. I don't see her happy. I'm happy to be rid of the bit*h.

Answer 5

my husband was having an affair and there was no way i could forgive him because he was so cruel about it so it was over! i wanted him out and the police told me i had to serve him with divorce papers or he could legally stay in my house no matter what. i wasn't working waiting on surgery couldn't afford papers went through legal aid but was a waiting period well knowing he could stay till he got served the papers he didn't hide it anymore started getting ready for dates in front of me. would come in at nite with cups from the pizza place down the street in his hand where he went on his date she sent guys to my door pretending to be his friend to draw him outside It was sick the worst was finding pics of her in my home when i was in hospital well he didn't know i had a restraining order put on him so he didn't clean nothing went to work and got told to schedule a time to pick up personal belongings so he never had a chance to clean up and i found all the proof that she was there her shirt in my bathroom sink ect. for awhile i was messed up because i did love him once so for like a month i still wanted him back just for things to be normal because we had a daughter 4 yrs old it hurt like **** and threw me for a loop but once i snapped out of it i realized he was the biggest worthless piece of **** on two feet that me or my daughter would be better off without. i have since remmarried and have a wonderful second husband that has a heart and is a decent good man and even though i feared divorce because i thought my daughter needed her dad Now i am so glad he's gone she has a good example now. Life has no where to go but up when your down that far i hav't heard from him in two years he's probably wallowing in the pit with his whore somewhere but i do pray he will turn into a better person for our daughters sake someday.

Answer 6

My husband wouldn't stop cheating - In the 7th year -we divorced

Answer 7

MY WIFE AND I GOT MARRIED AND WAS SEPERATED FOR 7 YEARS. NOT LIVING TOGETHER AND SPENDING TIME TOGETHER IS BY ALL MEANS A REASON TO GET A DIVORCE.

Answer 8

My mum gambled all our money away and would rather spend our last of my dads hard earnt dollars on smokes than bread for us to eat. My dad left for good reason.

Answer 9

first- irreconcilable differences-different culture, views, customs, race, traditions and values
second-irreconcilable differences-same culture, customs, race, traditions but different values

i think i've learned my lesson on marriage by now...im happy and adjusted perfectly to call it real for good...i've grown and matured to be a successful wife and a better person..no regret on those failed marriages cause as long as i live, there are more to learn and experience..life goes on...

Answer 10

when you think that your spouse and you can't reconcile EVER and you're as different to him as a pig to a snake. Also it may be that you find that you can't talk to him without fighting and that you feel like you don't want to see him. Ever. Period.