2006-06-09 16:39:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
As a 33yr old male, I remember being very disappointed at the age of 15, when I lost my virginity.
The peer pressure from friends, making out it was the best thing since the Sega mega drive (Hey I was 15 at the time), the newspaper problem pages, TV and Film industries, all lead me to believe that it was going to an absolutely mind blowing experience.
And when it was done, using protection, with my steady girlfriend (also a virgin) I was like, what? That's it?
It was the build up I found to more exciting, the thrill of the hunt, teasing, trying my best to reach the prize.
Since then I have had many more experiences and found that with experience it does get better, a lot better when in a loving relationship with an experienced partner with similar likes and dislikes in the bedroom.
But sex is still not the be all and end all of a relationship, the ability to communicate and be best friends is far more valuable then being joined at the hip.
Hope this helps.
Please remember to use adequate protection whilst experimenting, and not loose your virginity to some idiotic loser who is going to run bragging to all his mates. Make him respect you first by holding out until you feel the time is right, don't be forced.
2006-06-09 17:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by sleazer_1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It fecking kills the first time. Brace yourself when you go for a bath afterwards, ouch. Tell him you are a virgin before hand and that you are unsure, if he has an inch of decency he'll be very careful. You may regret it afterwards, but after a while you will realise it is probably the best sex you'll ever have. Be careful and make sure you are completely sure that you want to go ahead. If your not disscuss any insecurities you have with the guy you are planning to have sex with. Use protection and be sure you know what you are doing with it. Finally if you are underage don't even think about doing it, if you feel pressured go tell the guy to back off, if that dosen't work tell him to go finish himself off. E-mail me if you need to.
2006-06-09 23:15:21 · answer #2 · answered by rockchick130289 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If the person you're having intercourse with is someone you truly love, then the sex is wonderful. I mean, sex is good. But, if you have to do it make sure you use protection.
2006-06-09 16:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by madeline4sure 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.If you don't know how it feels then don't do it until u meet the right true love in life wate until after you get married .Then it might be better.In my point of view if you are younger than 17 then you need to go ask your mom and dad or grandma.
2006-06-09 16:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by reallife_wakefor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it'll depend on who it's with, I've only had sex with one person and I adore him, so it's more the feeling of being so close to somebody, and they think you're the most sexy thing on the planet, more than the actual penatration bit. (don't worry, it doesn't hurt like people say it does)
2006-06-10 00:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by floppity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how u feel about the person ur having sex with,it would feel better with someone u trust and love.
2006-06-09 16:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by drock2589 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its depends on individuals. its their opinion that they like the sex or not sometimes it depends on the person's mood also
y do u like to have the sex or planing to have the sex?
2006-06-09 16:48:57 · answer #7 · answered by sonu143 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woooonderfullllllllllll!!!
2006-06-09 16:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by Karl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feells good at first, then as the years go by same as taking a ****.
2006-06-09 16:45:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
feels like a million bucks! by the way long neck describes it perfectly.
2006-06-09 16:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by seano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋