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take a test and if you are consider your options. there is abortion which many people are against, i know but my best friend did it and she's fine. there is adoption if you really don't want to baby. then there is the option of keeping it and learning how to deal with your mistakes. its a part of growing up which you did too fast, but who am I to judge. I'm not usually this nice if you have read any of my other posts, but I'll make an exception. if you need someone to talk to [type to] you can email me.
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2006-06-09 16:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by bambi..♥ 3 · 0 1

First and foremost... stop having sex. You're still a kid. You should be playing soccer or something. But what you need to do is take a test. Look up "Planned Parenthood" in the telephone book. They offer free services to help you get a pregnancy test and prenatal care. Next you need to talk to your parents. Even if you are not pregnant they need to know that you are having sex so that they can make sure you get proper medical care and prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. If you can't talk to your parents then find someone... a teacher, church youth group leader, grandparent... that you can talk to until you are able to tell your parents. And remember even though you are probably scared senseless, you have engaged in adult behaviors and if you choose to act like an adult you will have to face grown-up consequences. But don't keep this to yourself whatever you do because there are just too many things that can go wrong without proper care.

2006-06-09 16:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by ŧťŠ4 · 0 0

im 15 and pregnant. first off, i kno u heard this alot but please stop havin sex, your only 13 years into life,take a test and if u still think u are... as hard as it may be u must tell ur mom, dont wait for the rite time, because to you there never maybe a rite time, if u are pregnant then you need to do the rite thing and tell ur mom so she can get u prenatal care and that will make sure the babys growing stages are healthy ones, trust me when u have a baby its ur heart that your holding. its really serious, ur 13 so by the time ur child is ready to go to college at 18 you'll be 31 years old, havin a kid aint no joke, u NEVER have any money keepin up wit the doctor appointments diapers every 20 minutes feeding it, and tryna get it to go to sleep when its 4 in tha morning and u havent had time to study for your test that you have in english that day. if u tell ur mom she wont get mad she'll be more hurt that u lost ur virginity at such a young age and she would have to help u find out if u are, trust me i thout my mom would kill me...literally... but she was juss very hurt and it made me cry, but whuteva u do dont murder your child and by that i mean abortion. i wish u the best of luck. really. and u can e-mail me if u want.

2006-06-10 02:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 3 · 0 0

Do not consider an abortion, take a pregnancy test and tell someone you trust. You are 13 years old and may not know everything but I just have to ask, did you have sex with someone? That is the only way to get pregnant. If so then you needto stop doing that because you are not mature enough physically to be having sex. Whoever you are having sex with can get into a lot of trouble for doing that with you.

2006-06-09 16:54:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I've had many friends who've been pregnant at this age the last thing you can do is not to worry or stress yourself out. 1st get a pregnancy test and make sure then get professional help. There are free clinics that will check you out but you still need to go to your professional doc! good luck and much love! if you need a friend 2 talk to hit me up! soulblazinsista@yahoo.com

2006-06-09 16:50:12 · answer #5 · answered by dipdap 1 · 0 0

Try taking a home test which can be wrong or just go straight to the doctor. Also have your periods stopped? This can be a sign, but since you're so young it could just be your age. If you are pregnant, be sure to tell your parents immediately.

2006-06-09 16:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by just wants to know 7 · 0 0

In every city there is a PREGNANCY HOT LINE phone number - they can counsel you (confidentially) and direct you to your local Pregnancy Resource Center which offers many options (planned parenthood usually only has one thing they offer). Find out for sure if you are pregnant then you just have to swallow real hard and tell your mom. & STOP THE SEX you are way too younng

2006-06-10 08:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by AnaMay 2 · 0 0

1st of all you r to young!! did u have sexual intercourse? my friend is 13 and she thought she was pregnant so she talked to a school nurse and she said that she probably isn't and shes not. she missed her period because she had sooo much stress that she missed her period. so take a test and if u r then tell Ur parents a.s.a.p!! if Ur not then don't tell Ur parents and don't have sex until u r old enough and have finished school so that u can focus on Ur child and have a job and r making money so that u can take GOOD care of Ur child!!

2006-06-09 17:30:07 · answer #8 · answered by sophia_mungaray 1 · 0 0

cry, pray that you are not, take a pregnancy test to confirm, if you are talk to an adult or a parent and get help to make the best decision for yourself and if your not honey please be careful you are really toooo young to be having sex and definitely to young to raise a child trust me i have three had my first at 19 and thought i was ready oh no i wasn't even at 19 i missed out on alot now i am 22 with three kids who are my life and i love to pieces but there are a lot of things i don't get to do with my life that could have helped me and my daughters.

2006-06-09 16:50:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell your parents and go to your doctor for a physical and a pregnancy test. If you are pregnant you're going to need proper prenatal care. If you aren't pregnant you're going to need information about birth control, safe sex, and STDs. If I were you I'd put off having sex again for a long time.

2006-06-09 16:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Nico 7 · 0 0

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