see me and my english teacher have a pretty gd relationship and i really really lik him. but he is 35 and im 19. i mean we are both old enough to kno rite from wrong rite? i don't kno wat to do. he asked me to get an aboshoion but i wood neva eva get 1 o those! and then he said dat a baby wood just complicate things. UGH idk wat to do! but then he said dat he woodn't mind havin a baby but just not rite know. does he love me or is h ejust leadin me on? idk wat to do?
2006-06-09 16:17:59 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
OMFG, are you serious, you have an english teacher, coz your question has tons of spelling and grammatical errors, and actually does not make any sense at all!
2006-06-09 16:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by George_Wolfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I'd like to know what this guy teaches,because your spelling and use of the English language, well they leave a lot of room for improvement. I hope he does not teach English. Also, why would you think even for a minute that a man like him would stay with you and/or help to raise and support a child? Believe me when I say, he probably does this with a new student every few months. First, demand a A in the class, go to the Principal or dean and report him, then get a lawyer so that he will be forewarned to expect child support payments. Do yourself a favor and a try not to communicate with him on any level because you do not need this person in yours or your child's life. Since you appear to be uneducated and young and are in school you may want to consider that you can not provide for this child and that giving the child up to a loving & financially able family would be the greatest act of love that you could show.
2006-06-09 16:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by annie red 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, are you crazy. Don't you know that it is highly unethical for a teacher or anyone in that sort of position to be sleeping with their student. What you are doing is WRONG and can be called abuse. You should report him, because I doubt you are the first student he has slept with and you will not be the last. These sort of men take advantage of people who are not very educated. He must have thought you were easy and that he could screw you all he wanted and then move on to someone else next year. Talk to your parents or someone you really trust and get some good advice, maybe even talk to a doctor. And stop f***ing the teacher and brush up on your English skills, because you sound like you have the IQ of a third grader.
2006-06-09 17:06:22 · answer #3 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that illegal? He should have waited until you weren't in his class any longer before he pursued a relationship with you. This baby could definitely complicate things, including his career, but you are right, abortion is not the answer. He should never have asked you to kill your own baby. It's not your baby's fault to be paying the price for someone else's mistake, as you know. www.abortionNO.com can tell you that with all too real facts. Your teacher doesn't want what already is *right now*... it sounds like he needs to face up to what he's done and do the right thing, but wisely. I am not certain he loves you or not, but he is not allowed to openly confess his love in school, and that must not be too comfy for you. Congrats on the baby, though, they are ALWAYS a blessing! :) He should help you with that as well, if he is a person of integrity.
2006-06-09 16:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by ~blessss♫☼ ♪♥ ☼ ♠♫ ♣☺☻ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart..dont do something you'd regret no matter what pressure is put on you. plenty of single moms care for their children without the help of the dad..as well as dads who take care of their kids w/o the support of the mother. He should be held accountable though, he helped make the baby. If he insists you get an abortion then hold your ground, don't make any decisions until you can think clearly.AFter all if you decide you can't care for the baby then there is always adoption.
2006-06-09 16:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by ohimmabeliever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just using you for sex, sweetheart. Gurl, you need to leave that jerk because he is nothing but a peice of trash! I can't stand men like that. Obvousily, its just lust because he says he doesn't wanna have a baby right now. Really he ISN"T ready for the commitment of being in a real relationship. If he really LOVED you, he would be crazy excitedly about having a child with YOU regardless of the accident of creating a child. Gurl, dump him like the jerk that he is!
2006-06-09 16:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Lily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are they teaching you guys in school these days?!?!?!?
Look at that spelling and grammar!!! If you insist on posting on a public forum, at least use the SPELL CHECK!!!!
At the risk of looking naive and unintelligent!
You screwed up for screwing your teacher. You aren't a baby. You're BOTH to blame. He's probably been with a girl each year in his class! You aren't "that special one."
You need to face the consequences.
2006-06-09 16:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jasmine Lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey i think that he is leading you on i mean i really don't know the hole story or anything but the way you are putting it he sounds like he is leading you on..i would have this baby cause i mean you know there was a possibility that you could get pregnant... but have this baby and get child support from him and if he has something to do with it then so be it but if not i would worry as long as he was paying child support to help you out cause you cant do it by yourself believe me....
2006-06-09 16:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from reading your question it seems he should have stuck to teaching you english and left the sex ed to someone else he is wrong no matter how old you are he can go to jail and should its your body dont ever let a man or anyone else tell you what to do with it if you dont want an abortion dont get one he will have to support the child whether he wants to or not
2006-06-09 16:23:09 · answer #9 · answered by aarika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not old enough to know right from wrong untill you do something wrong and you know it. if he is sleeping with you you might not be the only one. keep the baby nd find someone else to raise it with. it is possible. i got pregnant when i was 16 and i aised my daughter with a totally diff man thtn her father. he sounds like a sleaze, why couldnt he find someone his own age? you could also raise the baby alone. eiher way it is your responsiblity now.
2006-06-09 16:22:27 · answer #10 · answered by kknpz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋