It's been 2.5 wks since the break up of my 1.5 yr relationship.
2006-06-09 16:05:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I thought i was ready to collect my things. Was planning to get them tomorrow but just thinking of it made me break down after a couple of wks w/o tears. ****! How can our heart feel and endure this much pain? Some consolation would help. Thanks.
2006-06-13 15:29:09 · update #1
Take em ou immediately,afore you become a forgoten history and your stuff is either sold off, or worse, pased onto the next person.
and make your ex a forgotten history, if you want to get on in life.
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2006-06-09 16:09:32 · answer #1 · answered by Starreply 6 · 8⤊ 0⤋
I guess itwould depend on what you left there and is it worth going back after.
If it is I too suggest taking someone with you. As it is for your best interest to not go alone.
Remember when returning not to fight or argue over anything. Just a simple get your stuff and leave.
Make a phone call to him and let him know you want to come and get your things when woudl be a good day for you to come over. Leaving the time and date up to him, that away he can't say you caught him off guard or not answer the door.
Best of luck to you and think safe
2006-06-09 23:15:20 · answer #2 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have personal belongs at your ex's place, just simply go to your local law enforcement agency, usually the sheriffs office and explain the situation to them. When you know your ex will be home, make arrangements to go there and let the police know so they can be there when you go to get your belongings. This will prevent the ex from calling the law on you for trespassing or whatever and everything will remain civil. Good luck. Hope you get your stuff back!
2006-06-09 23:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its over and you know its really over call a/s/a/p make arrangements to get them right away. the longer you wait the more anxiety you will have. you do not leave your things behind why would you want to? facing the person is the only way to know if you don't already. i just went thru this myself its not easy but has to be done. i hope and wish you the best
2006-06-09 23:25:43 · answer #4 · answered by shiznick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let my ex keep my stuff, since I was starting over I didn't want the bad memory of having stuff that we may of shared together.
Beleive me, it was well worth not taking it with me and I am alot more happier without her, and the stuff.
2006-06-09 23:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by De Nirezza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need more info
what was the break-up like? are you angry? do you still have feelings for this guy? might want to get it over with. might just give him time to put it in boxes or whatever if it's better to avoid each other.
2006-06-09 23:07:49 · answer #6 · answered by notacopulation 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited to get my stuff... something was holding me back so I never did... then I ended up getting back with him...
I guess it was a sign, because if I wanted to get the hell out, I would've walked out with it, or sent someone else to go get it!!!
2006-06-09 23:08:31 · answer #7 · answered by Sienna Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still have a key, go get your stuff when you know the ex won't be home. only take what's yours. you don't want the police knocking on your door accusing you of theft.
2006-06-09 23:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by marcilee1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get all your things whenever you want, it's your right. You should take someone with you to help you get your things and also for support.
2006-06-09 23:06:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if it was a bad break up now would be a good time but if you broke up on ok terms then soon
2006-06-09 23:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by klynnd1981 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋