my bestfriend always telling that he's still in love with me and i always ignore it bec. we're both attached w/ other people. and i don't wanna hurt any two of them. but when my bestfriend told me that his getting married this june, i confessed my true feelings w/ him. he told me i am the one he wants to marry but he's thinking that if he will tell to his gf what he's true feelingd for him, maybe there will be a bad effect for the baby. he doesn't want that to happen. right now, if ever we are alone and talked to each other we're like we have both special relationship.... and we treat each other like boyfriend / girlfriends do.... but what we'll gonna do? his getting married this month of june and i have a boyfriend too... i also love my boyfriend but i don't want to lose my ex / bestfriend?
2006-06-09 15:36:38 · 8 answers · asked by fherz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my bestfriend / ex always tell me that he's still in love with me and i always ignore it bec. we're both attached w/ other people. and i don't wanna hurt any two of them. but when my bestfriend told me that his getting married this june, i confessed my true feelings w/ him. he told me i am the one he wants to marry but he's thinking that if he will tell to his gf what he's true feelings for him, maybe there will be a bad effect for the baby. he doesn't want that to happen. right now, if ever we are alone and talked to each other we're like we have both special relationship.... and we treat each other like boyfriend / girlfriends do.... but what we'll gonna do? his getting married this month of june and i have a boyfriend too... i also love my boyfriend but i don't want to lose my ex / bestfriend? sometimes we think to run away and be together but i dont want other people blame me if something bad happened to the baby...but my ex is not happy w/ her?
2006-06-09 19:03:12 · update #1
You need to sit down with your best friend and you need to figure out what you are going to do. If you both love eachother you shouldn't be with other people - and he certainly shouldn't be getting married. If you love eachother you should be together, but if you both aren't going to make it work - which includes leaving your signifcant others - and the fact that he is going to have a baby, then you need to break it off and stop seeing eachother.
Be honest, talk about it - and figure things out. Keep in mind the other people who are involved in this - his pregnant gf and your bf. Him breaking up with his pregnant gf would be better than him marrying her if he isn't going to love her 100% and be 100% into his marriage with her.
2006-06-09 15:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you say you love you boyfriend but if you did then why do you have feelings for your best friend? If you both have or had feelings for eachother then why are'nt you both together. I think it is too late let him get married and you stay with your bf. What you both had is over. Once you both got with different people. Things change. so stay with your bf and let your bestfriend be a father to that baby. Hope this helps Good Luck and god bless.
2006-06-09 15:48:21 · answer #2 · answered by k1ss_m3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whats best for you. Why do you want all that dramma? Unless the girl is going to get an abortion, there will be a baby involved. Don't waste your time with a man that doesn't have the balls to tell his babes mamma the truth. Put yourself in her position. Can you really see yourself having kids with him?
2006-06-09 15:44:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
evrything bout you both have end up remeber that's why you were called as ex's...both of you now has your own lives to live....you enter sumbody's lives...unfortunately you've felt the same way as before...but it's not proper now to pursue that feelings cause you will make other lives miserable...he's going to marry his preggy gf...and you love your boyfriend right?...maybe you're just amzed that you can still be friends despite your past...but try to analyze everything and consider all that things that should matter!
2006-06-09 15:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by angelsiege11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him get away with it. Chances are he's like the rest. A pig not man enough. Who played with you, played with her, got bored of his toy and wants to play you again.
If you found someone better, someone to love you for you. Stick with him. And never go back to the ones who will not love you without committment.
2006-06-09 15:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by geniusflightnurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay far, far away from this situation. He has made his bed so to speak and must now be responsible for it. He sounds like he is playing both of you (and who knows who else). Move on.
2006-06-09 15:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best not to meddle with it if she's pregnant. If you care about people, that baby needs a father more
2006-06-09 15:40:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2006-06-09 15:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋