Seriously, why would adoption be worse than killing the baby? I don't understand why abortion is an option when we have thousands of couples wanting to adopt in the U.S. alone.
If your arguement is they could be put in a bad family, that is a bad arguement. Normally, tons of papers have to filled out before you adopt, so the agency knows what they're doing first. Second, we have social services. Third, that cannot be an arguement, since at least the child has a chance to live, and get help, rather than someone having an abortion and shutting it's voice forever.
I know some may think, "it's none of my business" it is "their personal decision" or " a fetus is nothing but two cells" But hey! I have every right to stick up against it. Who is more voiceless than an unborn fetus?
I am not preaching, I am just annoyed at how people keep saying, it's "A women's right to choose." Well, you know, a fetus is not even part of the women's body.. .so how can you say that?
2006-06-09 15:32:29 · 9 answers · asked by genuine♥ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you are 100% correct. There is no good answer for the support of abortion, oh I mean a women choice. It is wrong, if a women doesn't want to be pregnant, she should a) not have sex or b) use protection, and If she is by chance actually raped, I'm sorry to say but tough luck, it happens. Why couple the crime of rape with the crime of murder? People need to be more responsible with their lives and be careful. There isn't a simple solution to every problem and abortion should not be a solution to the pregnancy problem. Also people may argue that women would perform "back alley" abortions if it were illegal, Oh well thats their problem, maybe they should die in the process, death seems to be OK for a baby, why not risk it? I think that people today need to be accountable for their actions, if you get pregnant do to your own negligence, then you must deal with it, not avoid it by simply killing the fetus. Many people today are just ignorant. Two cells, four cells, eight cells, whatever, grow-up and deal with your problems.
2006-06-09 15:48:07 · answer #1 · answered by mtphellas1 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Every woman does have the right to choose!!!!!
What if you were going to die if you had the baby? Would you?
I know i wouldn't
What if you were raped oh just say by a family member (or a stranger) would you carry the baby to term and keep it?
No i wouldn't..I would have an abortion
What if something was bad wrong with the baby and it was going to be so deformed or handicapp and just live a short suffering life would you want to put it through that?
I know i would not want to do that.
I would rather have an abortion then give my baby to complete strangers.
People say that adoptive parents are saints but do you really know what they are really like? no no one does
Anyone could pass the adoption agency test to become an adoptive parents and then turn out to be devils
2006-06-09 19:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
while i agree with you you also have to think that some woman get pregnant by accident and don't have the time to go thro 9 months of pregnancy and push the child out or they are not healthy enough to do so and they don't want a child and they know that in the end before they give it up if they look at the baby they will want it. You can have ur opinion but until you actully get in the postion you shouldn't really judge those who do it
2006-06-09 15:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im 7 mo pregnant and i would never but i know people who have and it is their decision but i also think that adoption is better my husband and i were told we couldnt have children i got pregnant in spite of that but i would like to think that someone would give us a chance to raise a child and really i think people are just selfish and its not that its better they just dont want to have to be denied the things they cant have when their pregnant and maybe if they are going to do things like drink and do drugs the baby should be aborted because then they have fu&^%$ up an innocent persons life and the baby will have to suffer its entire life because lets face it are they going to be competent enough to take care of it?
2006-06-09 15:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by redhotttt1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
100% correct....first of all, yes it is a womans decision, BUT it is also their decision to have unprotected sex. people need to learn to deal with the consequences of their actions. the baby IS living and deserves a chance at life. abortion should be illegal everywhere. if someone cannot take care of a child that they "chose" to bring in to this world by having unprotected sex they need to give it to one of the MANY familes who would love that child unconditionally more than anything in the world.
2006-06-09 15:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Amen to that. A baby is a live person, they move, kick, dream, feel pain, and remember each and everyone of us were formed in our mothers bellies, by the All Mighty, Himself. If He didn't plan for the pregnancy to happen then it wouldn't have happened. PS If you don't want to have a baby, don't have sex.
2006-06-09 17:19:45 · answer #6 · answered by emerys4christ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a matter of selfishness on the woman's part. She doesn't want a baby, and at the same time, she also doesn't want stretch marks, spider veins, hemmorhoids, a "loose" vagina (although that's not true) after giving birth. It's pure selfishness if you ask me.
2006-06-09 23:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are so right...ya! You said exactly what i wanted to say..only i didn't know how to put it into words.
2006-06-10 09:20:28 · answer #8 · answered by mountaingirl88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know how many kids sit in orphanages thinking they are unwanted, unlovable and worthless?? Would you actually want that for a child?? Would you want to be one of those kids??
2006-06-10 18:29:43 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Stranger In Maine™♥ (Thriller) 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋