i have two boyfriends and im really only need one but i really like the first one but i dont whant to break the 2nd ones heart how should i do it
2006-06-09 15:26:09 · 6 answers · asked by more 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thats why its called love its tricky not so easy.be away from both of them few days and see their and your reactions if one of them misses you then you know he truly loves you.best of luck.
2006-06-09 15:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a time when I would say that having a 'boyfriend' is not the best thing. You are obviously young enough and are enjoying the company of several male friends. You should not be in the middle. You should be dating and enjoying the company and companionship that each provides you. When you are ready to settle down to one individual, you will know and then you won't have to ask. It's too late now. If you have stronger feelings for one, then the best thing to do is let the other one know. Honestly is always the best policy, even if people are hurt. (That's why it is best to let each person know you are not ready for a commitment, but would like to leave your options open and enjoy several dates from time to time.) There is nothing wrong with that and it should not generate any name calling from others. Be honest.
2006-06-09 22:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will assume you are young. Dating is practice to find out what you like. Be careful how far you go and don't send mixed signals or lie. Tell the 2nd how you feel. You are not responsible for his feelings, only your own. You cannot think that stringing him along is better for his "heart" than telling him the truth. Don't waste your time (and your youth) tied up with the wrong guy. If somebody is not right for you - move on, and don't allow anybody to disrespect you - especially in the first couple of days of dating. That relationship will only get worse - guaranteed.
2006-06-09 22:34:39 · answer #3 · answered by roberts175 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are hurting both right now. Break up with the guy you don't want to be with. Just sit him down and tell him you want to break up with him. There is no way to avoid heartache, but being with 2 people at once is just wrong.
2006-06-09 22:30:45 · answer #4 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U got ur self in a pickle. ur going to have to pick one. Either way, someone is going to get hurt weather u mean it or not. If it comes down to it, pick the one that makes u the happest.
2006-06-09 22:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by nuttyp16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can take their advice or you can take mine. Do what I do and slowly drift away from the one you don't want to talk to. That way you don't burn your bridge and if you decide to pick that guy back up if you feel lonely or something you can.
2006-06-09 22:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋