Basically, I think that my friend is going to go out and mess around with this one guy... I totally understand and respect that it is her choice if she wants to lose her virginity and deal with whatever consequences may come, but I know the type of guy that he is, and she will get very hurt by him. He's one to talk, and she'd get the reputation of a sl*ut even if she was only with him once. I've tried to explain this to her, but she just doesn't seem to get it.
Please give me any advice on what I can do to convince her that this guy is not the person she should be losing her virginity to. I love her too much to see her keep getting hurt.
Oh and telling her parents wouldn't do any good, she would find a way to sneak out, so please don't suggest anything like that.
2006-06-09 14:42:10 · 9 answers · asked by Green-eyed Nikki 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If your friend doesnt want to listen to you then you cant do anything more. she has to learn things the hard way. you can keep on talking to her that this guy doesnt deserve her and that her virginity isnt something she can take back, but in the end it is she who'll make the decision. pray that she be enlightened to think straight, i will too. good luck!
2006-06-09 14:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by swyt_suphladah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have some things to support or prove what you think about him, let her know. If she is still stubborn, then let her go. She will get what she deserve.
2006-06-10 00:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by voice.from.above 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well she would hate you so this suggestion is just for laughs but you could start talking to her about a gross disease that "she has" around him. Tell him it's not contagious. ahahahhahaha
2006-06-09 21:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweetie i know it is a hard thing to see someone make a mistake before they can even make it. but sometimes if you know that she is not willing to listen to reason you just have to let her learn from her own mistakes.
2006-06-09 21:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by daniellesweets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you just have to let people learn the hard way. i had to do that with my friend and now she's pregnant and she's going to marry the father. she's to young to have to deal with it. but she makes her bed and now she has to lie in it.
2006-06-09 21:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by melmei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is this girl? and if she is going to do it anyhow no matter how hard you try - just make sure she knows to be smart and use protection!
2006-06-09 21:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by bluskygreengrass 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she wants him and then tell her that what she wants to do is slutty. The truth hurts, but your friend will survive.
2006-06-09 21:49:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
and if you try to stop her she will say you want her man so let her go and be there for her when she comes in...
2006-06-09 21:49:03 · answer #8 · answered by luv41anatha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore it or do what your heart tells you
2006-06-09 21:52:59 · answer #9 · answered by kay_girl_27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋