my bestfriend flirts with my boyfriend and now that im not with him she tries and asks him out is that a good?

Answer 1

No. This isn't going to be good thing. In fact, you might come across a three way war. I suggest you do something now to save all three of yourselves.

Answer 2

I would say its not a good thing. Maybe its just me but bestfriends should never date each others ex's because you would have to witness their relationship and that would make your friendship ocward. I say you tell your bestfriend to lay off on it, and let her know how you feel about the situation. If she's a real bestfriend she'd understand and not try to date your ex in the first place.

Answer 3

I have never had a boyfriend, not yet anyway. But with the knowledge I've had with my own friends having boyfriends and having them stolen away, I would say that your friend isn't exactly a friend. That friend should have respected your feelings about your ex - boyfriend and made sure that she had nothing to do with him. But one thing is clear, unless she apologizes and breaks up with your ex-boyfriend, she isn't a good friend, not in my opinion. But... I'm not sure if this matters very much, especially since he's your ex-boyfriend. But I can understand your feelings a lot. (Me, I'd be totally confused!)

Answer 4

If you dont know the question to this answer than you obviously need some help. No offense. A REAL friend wouldnt act that way towards their friends boyfriend. Its just wrong. You say shes your best friend but it seems to me she isnt. What kind of girl flirts with their friends guy and tries to ask him out when they break up. Your friend is no good. I would never degrade myself to hang out with someone like her. I have self-respect to. Im 17 and believe me I have been through friendships like the one you are now. How did I get through it thou? I figured out they werent friendships, my so called best friend was just a negative person in my life. I found out that I have way more respect for myself and I should be shown with respect. You should dump your best friend because she isnt real. Girls like that are just a negative impact in your life. If you do continue to be friends with her I have to say that I feel very sorry for you. Very sorry that you have no respect and would continue to hang with a girl who shows you none.

Answer 5

Firstly, what kind of friend flirts with her best friends boy friend? I don't think she was much of a friend if she did that knowing that you two were together, not a terribly classy move. I would say you would be better off without her as a friend and who cares if they date or not ( I know it hurts as it happened to me too, and they didn't wait until we were apart, but I got over it ). No Hon, I think would be better off without either of them and move on. No need to make big overtures, just See ya, wouldn't want to be ya !!!! Good luck and take the time to heal OK !!!

Answer 6

I would find a new bestfriend and boyfriend. Maybe the same person? Depending on how old you are and the seriousness of your relationships.

Answer 7

If she is your best friend, she would NEVER ask your ex-boyfriend to go out with her.
Man, she was just waiting for that to happen! And what happened if he would have went out with her?
my guess is that she would brag to everyone what kind of a loser you were because she had gotten your man and that you are pathetic!
She would put you through the dirt. I suggest you cut your losses and lose this "best" friend of yours. Get these two out of your life!

Answer 8

Sorry to tell you this, but your "best friend" is a sl*t and obviously doesn't care about you or your feelings. I had a friend like this once, and you better believe she backstabbed me by stealing my boyfriend and did this to anyone and everyone. People like that just can't stand a guy to not want her, so she'll go after yours to make herself feel better. If you want some good advice, ditch this so-called friend and move on.

Answer 9

No thats bad.

Shes one of those friends that will have an affair with your husband and then wait for your divorce, then marry him. And probably go after your 2nd husband.

Its 100% bad. Shes not a good friend, or not good enough to keep her legs closed. Or mouth shut. Or whatever.

Answer 10

talk to her about that. She should know that that isn't good. My best friend is going out with a guy I used to like and I'm really uncomfortable around him now. but I will tell you, if he says he'll go out with her your friend might not spend as much time with you . My advice : Be honest and try to let your friend know how you feel about this.