Okay so i know some one that is 12 (turning 13 in aug.) and she is going out with a 17 year old boy (turning 18 in Dec.). They are a couple....and they both REALLY like each other....but of course the parents don't like it ( well they wouln't if they knew cause da girl is not allowed 2 go out till age 16)....but they still wanna b with each other...the girl said that when she turns 18 she is going 2 move...and he said he will wait 4 her and then move with her....he sounds like he really means these things when he says them...and i know the girl truely means everything she says to him...but do you think hes just messing with her, or do you think he really means what he says....
2006-06-09 14:40:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if you love him dont think about what anyone says just do what your heart says my best wishes goes to you
2006-06-09 14:52:17 · answer #1 · answered by kacygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was 12 years old, I had crushes on older guys and thought it was okay. It's easy to be infatuated with more mature people. But you have to understand that for someone as old as 17, even 14-year-olds seem like kids. Put it in this context - would the 12-year-old like a 7-year-old romantically? It's not for me to answer, but right now, I can't think of a good reason for the guy to date someone so young. I'm not saying that love is definitely impossible, but it's very rare.
2006-06-15 07:11:12 · answer #2 · answered by seventytwo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the phrase 12 gets you 25 comes into play. What's going to happen if the parents decide to do anything. I hope they haven't sealed the deal, cause IF they did, he could probably get charge for rape.
For some reason some guys says I'll wait for, but come on, this is a dude, he's going to be waiting for her when he's 22 years old, in bed with another girl.
She's 12 years old, she know's nothing of life yet. She's still under her mom and dad's wing, she doesn't know how fast life travels. here's something that Eminem said from his song "Superman" "Maybe I'll love you one day"
that said I REALLY Don't see the guy waiting for her to move out of her parents house. She doesn't know what she wants, and I bet you this guy is thinking of one thing.
or we all could be totally wrong, but in essence this guy is a creep in my book. It's enough to bust a .45 in him....
2006-06-09 21:55:03 · answer #3 · answered by Skud 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get an odd feeling that you're the girl, but i think the girl should find someone closer to her age, like 14 or something. When he turns 18, that relationship is illegal, even if he is in high school. And if he's not, and she really cares about him, she'd let him go before he gets arrested or something.
2006-06-09 21:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man! My oldest daughter is 12... and I would personally kick his butt if I were her mom. Boys of that age have raging hormones that even trick themselves. It is NOT love, it's... the other thing. Tell your friend to have fun with her life and not to grow up so fast! And to give her mom a big hug and go out with her momma for some fun quality time. Sheesh sunny weather is here! Lots to do out there :)
2006-06-09 21:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by ~blessss♫☼ ♪♥ ☼ ♠♫ ♣☺☻ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sweet notion, but in reality it will be hard for him to wait it out that long. There will be other girls his age coming and going from his life. There is always a chance that his eyes are going to only be on her, but with all the contriversy of age, it's doubtful. After he turns 18, she'll be jail bait for him. Will he be willing to go to jail for her?
2006-06-09 21:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by visionssofaraway 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol that boy has no business with a girl that young. Hes gonna end up in jail after dec if he keeps this up. I'd say he should leave her alone till shes 18, after that do whatever floats your boat.
2006-06-09 21:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by ilovedorks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR GOD THAT IS MESSED UP!!!!
he may think he cares now but believe me he will NOT be there waiting for her 5 years from now! HA! and did i mention that anyone who dates someone who is 12 needs to get a life?? that's not cool...not cool at all.
2006-06-09 21:47:19 · answer #8 · answered by musikalgrl20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl there will be many more men in ur life make it easier for u and leave hime alone , it will make it easier on ur parents and u, i know u feel grown but trust me there will be many b-4 u find a really good one ur still young he wants someone who can go clubbing with him and go to a rated r movie wants he gets a taste of real life u will be old news please save ur self the drama
2006-06-09 21:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by starskii_001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea thats really wrong..it might seems that he really likes her but someone of that maturity would prbly just take advantage of her...i mean im 14 and i wouldnt date someone that is 18
2006-06-09 21:49:08 · answer #10 · answered by *~*cHiCaZ*~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea I think so...that just doesn't seem right!! but I am 18 and I am going out with a 24 yr old so I can't say too much!!
2006-06-09 22:03:40 · answer #11 · answered by Devin S. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋